26/02/2026
Before I was pregnant, I heard it all as a health visitor.
“Just wait until you never sleep again.”
“Just wait until your life is over.”
“Just wait… just wait… just wait.”
And then I became pregnant myself and suddenly those comments felt louder.
Yes, it can be hard.
Yes, there will be tired days and long nights.
But I wish we spoke just as openly about what’s coming with that.
Just wait until their first smile.
Just wait until they grip your finger like it’s the safest place in the world.
Just wait until their laugh stops everything else from mattering.
Just wait until the love feels bigger than the tiredness.
Just wait until you realise you’re doing better than you think.
If you’re pregnant and hearing a lot of negativity, please don’t let it steal the joy from this season.
Two things can be true at once: parenting can be tough and incredibly beautiful.
You’re allowed to look forward to what’s coming 🤍 🌱