04/12/2025
Neurodivergent "Green Flags" in Friendships & Relationships
✨️Explicit Communication: They say what they mean and mean what they say (no hints or subtext).
✨️Info-Dumping: They ask you about your special interests (spins) with curiosity, not judgment.
✨️Sensory Consideration: They notice when you're uncomfortable and quietly make changes without being asked.
✨️Parallel Play: They are comfortable being in the same room as you, doing different things.
✨️Holding Space: When you're overwhelmed, they give you time to recover before expecting you to speak.
✨️Co-regulation: They know what you need to help soothe emotions and give it, with your consent.
✨️Penguin Pebbling: They know what you like and share things they know you'll appreciate.
What else?
Share your “green flags” for neurodivergent friendships in the comments.
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