Child-Centred Sydney

Child-Centred Sydney Child-Centred Sydney is a specialist counselling service for children aged 3 to 11 and adolescent girls between 12 and 16 years old.

Our services include play therapy, activity therapy, parenting support and adolescent counselling. Child-Centred Sydney is a specialist counselling service for children aged 3 to 11, and adolescent girls between 12 and 16 years old. Specialising in child-centred play therapy and person-centred counselling.

Marking the end of International Play Therapy Week.                              *   *   *When I was growing up, my mum ...
05/02/2026

Marking the end of International Play Therapy Week.

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When I was growing up, my mum had a poster of the 1959 Declaration of the Rights of the Child in her paediatric waiting room. By the time I was a teenager, the declaration was followed by the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (1989). This is the most widely ratified human rights treaty in history. The only UN country that hasn't ratified the treaty is the United States.

However, to what extent do duty bearers uphold the articles of the Convention? Wars, climate change and our busy lives in a fast-paced society often make it virtually impossible to do so. The results speak for themselves.

As a child reading my mum's poster, it seemed odd that there was a specific article about play (Art. 31). And yet, that has not been enough to ensure and promote play across all ages. In fact, free play has been in decline over the past 35 years. So much so that in March 2024, the UN General Assembly proclaimed 11 June as the International Day of Play to champion and protect this right.

Play isn't just play. Play is a physical, emotional and developmental need, as well as a basic human right. As parents, our responsibility is to allow ample time for unstructured free play, much of it outdoors. As a society, we must create and support spaces and systemic structures that encourage such unstructured free play.

But for all of this to happen, we must first educate ourselves about human development and the consequences of not allowing children the time, space and opportunity to play.

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Originally posted on Child-Centred Sydney's page in June 2024.

On 25 March 2024, the United Nations General Assembly proclaimed 11 June as the International Day of Play, to be observed annually (A/RES/78/268).

03/02/2026

As part of the Play Therapy Olympics organised by for International Play Therapy Week, today I participated in the Arm Sweep Reset event.

The event consists of sweeping 26 animals off the shelf and then timing how long it takes the therapist to reorganise them. Most of us have been practising daily for years to make it this far 🌱

30/01/2026

"The good news is, it’s never too late (…) As parents, we must be patient. Children will grow out of impulsiveness if we support the conditions that are conducive for growth. They need to feel all their feelings " - Dr. Gordon Neufeld

All restocked and ready to welcome back our teens…
24/01/2026

All restocked and ready to welcome back our teens…

Pre-consultation video for CCPT treatment  |  2026https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tfbW7vODRWsCONTENTSSection 1 - Introdu...
22/01/2026

Pre-consultation video for CCPT treatment | 2026
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tfbW7vODRWs

CONTENTS

Section 1 - Introduction 0:01
Section 2 - The Play Therapy Process 1:42
Section 3 - Phases of Treatment 2:04
Initiation Phase 2:12
Resistance Phase 2:39
Work Phase 3:09
Termination Phase 3:20
Section 4 - Universal Outcomes 3:54
Section 5 - Parent Involvement 4:24
Section 6 - Confidentiality 4:57
Themes: The Metaphors of Play 5:39
Section 7 - Wrap Up 6:15

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

Special thanks to Dr Brenna Hicks, whose guidance has been invaluable for streamlining my practice processes and providing a better service.

REFERENCES

Axline, V. M. (1947). Play therapy. Ballantine Books.
Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-centered play therapy: A practical guide to developing therapeutic relationships with children. Wiley.
Hicks, B. (2024). The CCPT Collective. https://www.ccptcollective.com
Landreth, G. L. (2023). Play therapy: The art of the relationship (4th ed.). Routledge.
Newman, R. (2023). Child-centered documentation framework. Seattle Play Therapy Training Center. https://seattleplaytherapy.com/child-...
Ray, D. C. (2011). Advanced play therapy: Essential conditions, knowledge, and skills for child practice. Routledge.
Rogers, C. R. (1979). The foundations of the person-centered approach. Education, 100(2), 98-107.

Updated pre-consultation video for Child-Centred Play Therapy treatment.
22/01/2026

Updated pre-consultation video for Child-Centred Play Therapy treatment.

CONTENTSSection 1 - Introduction 0:01Section 2 - The Play Therapy Process 1:42Section 3 - Phases of Treatment 2:04Initiation Phase 2:12Resistance Phase 2:39W...

Ready to welcome back our families from Tuesday 20 January 2026  🌱
18/01/2026

Ready to welcome back our families from Tuesday 20 January 2026 🌱

Welcome to the playroom!Children often play out what they have experienced, as they don’t have the words to describe wha...
17/01/2026

Welcome to the playroom!

Children often play out what they have experienced, as they don’t have the words to describe what happened to them or don't have the cognitive ability to articulate complex emotions.

Accordingly, the playroom toys and materials have been carefully selected to support self-expression in the different therapy stages.

But the most important resource in the room is the therapist. Just like in other modalities, the child-clinician relationship is the highest predictor of positive treatment outcomes. The therapist builds an unconditional relationship within a warm, safe and predictable environment. This special connection is healing for the child.

In play therapy, the child uses the whole self —mind and body— to express unconscious thoughts, wishes, fears, anxieties and so forth. This helps them process ‘stuck’ emotions and thoughts. Through such play, the therapist gains an understanding of the child’s needs and experiences without giving directions or asking questions.

CCPT specialists are trained to read the metaphors of the play and observe emerging patterns. These observations help the clinician to reflect thoughts and feelings back to the child, thus addressing the underlying sources of challenges and allowing the child to gain insight into their own behaviours.

Change then happens from the inside out. As internal growth increases, behavioural symptoms will decrease. This leads to a stronger person (resilience and inner strength), more able to tolerate triggers and changes. The effects are progressively noticed in the child’s daily functioning.

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Arranged from left to right, the categories of toys in a Child-Centred Play Therapy playroom are as follows:

Acting-Out or Aggressive-Release Toys:

These toys allow for the release of emotions that are typically not allowed to be expressed in other settings and include a large bag of air (BoA), toy soldiers, rubber or foam knives/swords and toy guns that do not look realistic. Less obvious, but still important are egg cartoons and Popsicle sticks that can be physically broken down and destroyed.

Real-Life Toys:

This category consists of toys that are directly representative of real-world items including doll families, doll's house, pretend food, baby bottles, blankets; doctor kit; miniature figurines; cars, boats, airplanes; cash register and play money; pretend/fantasy play items, such as dress ups, masks and magic wands; puppets and puppet theatre, among other things.

Creative Expression Toys:

This toy grouping allows for creativity. There is no right or wrong way to show creativity, so children will always have an opportunity to feel successful and experience mastery. Items in this category include sand, water, paints, easel, paper, pencils, crayons, textas, scissors, pipe cleaners and construction materials (Landreth, 2002, 2023).

These questions/comments are also (usually unintentionally) condescending. If you wouldn't say it to a friend, don't say...
21/12/2025

These questions/comments are also (usually unintentionally) condescending. If you wouldn't say it to a friend, don't say it to a child. It's not about treating children like adults, it's about showing them the same level of respect.
Also remember, questions are not great for connection and quizzing can make kids anxious. They're having to perform at an age when they should be learning organically through natural exchanges and modelling by their safe adults.

"In early childhood, intelligence is often reduced to what is easiest to observe and measure. Labeling colors. Reciting ...
21/12/2025

"In early childhood, intelligence is often reduced to what is easiest to observe and measure. Labeling colors. Reciting sequences. Repeating symbols on command. These performances reflect exposure and repeated drills, not the kind of learning that actually reorganizes the brain.

The developing brain does not learn best through isolated facts. It learns through experience, movement, emotion, and problem solving.

Play is the mechanism through which this happens. During play, multiple systems in the brain are activated at once. Sensory input, motor planning, emotional regulation, memory, and executive function are all working together.

When a child builds a structure and adjusts it after it collapses, negotiates roles in pretend play, or experiments with materials to test cause and effect, the brain is strengthening neural networks that support attention, flexibility, persistence, and reasoning.

These experiences drive synaptic growth and integration between brain regions. This is what allows learning to transfer later into reading comprehension, mathematical thinking, and self-directed problem solving.

Rote drills operate very differently.

When children are asked to memorize symbols or sequences without meaningful context, learning stays superficial. Information is stored in isolation, without the rich neural connections needed for retrieval or application. This is why children can identify letters yet struggle to read, or count fluently without understanding quantity, relationships, or patterns. Memorization creates performance. It does not build understanding.

Play, by contrast, creates meaning. It embeds learning in the body. It engages emotion. It requires decision making, error correction, and sustained attention. This is the kind of learning the brain is biologically designed to do, especially in the early years when neural plasticity is at its peak."

We hear this all the time...

“My toddler is so smart. They know their colors, numbers, and letters. I don’t want them to be bored and need to challenge them!"

Or from teachers: “How do I get my class to learn their letters and numbers?”

This is where our definition of intelligence quietly goes off course.

In early childhood, intelligence is often reduced to what is easiest to observe and measure. Labeling colors. Reciting sequences. Repeating symbols on command. These performances reflect exposure and repeated drills, not the kind of learning that actually reorganizes the brain.

The developing brain does not learn best through isolated facts. It learns through experience, movement, emotion, and problem solving.

Play is the mechanism through which this happens.

During play, multiple systems in the brain are activated at once. Sensory input, motor planning, emotional regulation, memory, and executive function are all working together.

When a child builds a structure and adjusts it after it collapses, negotiates roles in pretend play, or experiments with materials to test cause and effect, the brain is strengthening neural networks that support attention, flexibility, persistence, and reasoning.

These experiences drive synaptic growth and integration between brain regions. This is what allows learning to transfer later into reading comprehension, mathematical thinking, and self-directed problem solving.

Rote drills operate very differently.

When children are asked to memorize symbols or sequences without meaningful context, learning stays superficial. Information is stored in isolation, without the rich neural connections needed for retrieval or application. This is why children can identify letters yet struggle to read, or count fluently without understanding quantity, relationships, or patterns. Memorization creates performance. It does not build understanding.

Play, by contrast, creates meaning.

It embeds learning in the body. It engages emotion. It requires decision making, error correction, and sustained attention. This is the kind of learning the brain is biologically designed to do, especially in the early years when neural plasticity is at its peak.

This is exactly what we unpack inside our in-depth, self-paced course: ALL ABOUT PLAY! https://www.weskoolhouse.com/courses

The course breaks down how play shapes brain development, how different types of play support different cognitive and regulatory systems, and why experiences like risky play, outdoor play, and even destructive play are not optional extras but essential for healthy development. It explores play schemas, stages of play, and the adult role in protecting the learning process without hijacking it through over-direction or premature academics.

This work is for parents and educators who want to move beyond surface-level achievement and understand how learning actually takes root in the brain. Because when we understand how children learn, we stop rushing outcomes and start supporting development in ways that last.

Wishing all children and their families peace 🕊️The practice will reopen on Tuesday 20 January 2026.
21/12/2025

Wishing all children and their families peace 🕊️

The practice will reopen on Tuesday 20 January 2026.

One example of how play therapy works.
05/12/2025

One example of how play therapy works.

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