Wholesome Counselling Services

29/09/2025

Dating After Trauma: How to Heal First and Attract lasting Love.

You can binge every dating podcast. You can read about attachment styles. You can point out red flags like a pro. But insight isn’t the same as healing.

Let’s be real — dating is hard. Like, really hard. And if you’ve ever experienced abuse, neglect, or even just grown up in a home where relationships weren’t healthy, dating becomes more than just hard — it feels like warfare.

Friendships are harder. Loneliness hits deeper.

Episode 31 dropping tomorrow @ Emotional Healing for Christian Women Podcast. Listen on all podcast platforms.

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19/09/2025

New Extended Hours This Spring & Summer! ✨

We’re excited to announce that Wholesome Counselling Services is now opening earlier and staying open later to better support you. 🌿

🕗 Monday – Friday: 8:00 AM – 8:00 PM
🕘 Saturday: 9:00 AM – 11:00 AM

Because your healing, growth, and peace of mind shouldn’t have to wait. 💛

📍 In-person in Ballarat | 🌏 Telehealth Australia-wide & worldwide

Now is the perfect season to prioritise your wellbeing — we can’t wait to see you! Get in touch. Link in comments and Bio.

29/07/2025

Honoured to be nominated for the Australian Christian Business Awards 2025, and I’m honestly grateful.

📖 Want to start your healing journey? link in comments to contact me directly for support.

🎙️ Tune into the latest podcast episode — “My Story: From pain to Purpose.” Now on Spotify & YouTube. Links in comments.

19/07/2025

When you heal, you don't just wait for better, you actually choose better.
Alright, I'm excited to announce that my double book is out and I'm really excited.

You can download that right away from my website. Link will be in comments.
Feel free to book a one on one session with me and let's walk through the emotional patterns, the voices that still whisper that you're not enough because you are enough.

You are worthy of love that doesn't hurt. You don't have to earn it. You only have to heal what has made you believe you didn't deserve it. If this message blessed you, I have one request only shared with someone you know that needs it.

You subscribe and leave a comment for what you like me to speak about in the next video. Also, you can listen to this as a podcast. I'll leave the links in the description below. Stay confident, stay beautiful. See you in my you tube channel.

Thank You! For Watching.
⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women.

Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together

Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible.

Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident.

WHAT NEXT?
✅ Download my ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.
✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠
📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠
✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.
✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠
✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠
✅ Send me an⁠ email, mav.wholesomecounsels@hotmail.com⁠

📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.

17/07/2025

You might be surprised to learn that emotional healing doesn’t always look like journaling or therapy sessions.

Sometimes, it shows up as small but powerful shifts in how you respond, how you protect your peace, and how you show up in relationships and at work.

In this week’s Heal First, Love Better series, I shared 4 real signs that emotional healing is taking root — even if you don’t feel “fully there” yet.

These aren’t dramatic or loud. In fact, they’re often quiet. But they’re strong indicators that your inner world is changing — and healing.

Episode 23 now on all podcast platform. link is provided in the comment.

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24/05/2025

Most people think you just grow out of father wounds... but the truth is, they grow with you until you heal them."

Do you ever struggle with feeling unloved, not enough, or unseen — no matter how much you accomplish?
✨ That quiet ache you carry… the doubt, the need for approval, the fear of trusting again — it may be pointing to an unhealed father wound.

It’s not about blame. It’s about acknowledging that his absence, criticism, or emotional distance left a mark.
And that mark still shows up in how you see yourself, relate to others, and experience God.

🕊️ In this week’s episode, I’m talking about what the father wound really is, why it still hurts, and how to start healing it through faith — so you can finally feel accepted, grounded, and fully loved.

📺 Watch on YouTube | 🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts
Let’s talk in my DM, if you need someone caring and capable to walk this path with you💛
https://open.spotify.com/episode/5fjDbp4ywkrlSGtL0MOF5W?si=1X8BdN6dTBSHJ_k9St9XhQ

Emotional Healing for Christian Women with Marvel Adeyemi | Psychotherapist. · Episode