20/10/2020
Communication...can you sit down with your partner/s and tell them anything?
Imagine if you could. How different would your relationship be? Are you fearful, would you be embarrassed or would they just not accept you if you opened up to them? Most of the time people tend to surprise me or when given time to digest something new, how quickly they come around and adapt. If not they at least let you know where their boundaries are and why?
How brave have you been? Discussed things in the house, how messy they might be, their job, things that bug you, family...what about pleasure? It's crazy how it's usually the last thing to get discussed, if at all. Are you satisfied, longing for more, need some variety or maybe you're just bored? Hopefully you're reading this and thinking nah...we've got this. Sadly it's quite uncommon.
First...let's look inward. What do you like? Where, when, what kind of touch, how do you spice things up and do you treat yourself? Once you can answer that you can then consider...how have I been communicating this to my partner/s? Have you told them or just hoped they'd pick it up along the way. Chances are they have some idea or manage to hit the mark every now and then. For many it's not at all. But what if you could connect, connect more often or reconnect in new and exciting ways? The possibilities are endless. What if you started the discussion and told them what you like and asks them the same in return? How much better could your life be. Would it just be opening up a can of worms. Probably but nothing good was ever achieved without compromise, sacrifice and a little hard work.
All it takes is a little finesse, delicate touch and lots of patience and understanding. Don't put this off. Plan a date night or at least time to discuss this. Make sure you create a safe space and take the leap.
It could just change your life!!!