04/02/2026
You can love your baby with everything in you and still feel grief sitting quietly beside that love.
Grief for the version of you who existed before. For the ease, the freedom, the body, the expectations you carried into motherhood.
This doesn’t make you ungrateful. It doesn’t mean you’re doing motherhood wrong.
There’s a real, biological transition happening - your hormones, your nervous system, your identity are all rewiring at once. Becoming a mother is a becoming, and every becoming asks us to let something go.
Love and loss are allowed to live in the same body. You don’t have to choose one feeling over the other.
If this resonates, save this for the days it feels heavy.
And if you need support being held through this season - you don’t have to do it alone 🤍
Reach out for gentle, personalised feeding support
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