07/02/2026
The Other Side of Change is a rare kind of book, meaningfully informed by science yet deeply human in its approach. Maya Shankar doesn’t just explain the mechanics of change; she brings us into the lived experience of it, showing how unexpected transitions shape who we become.
What makes this book resonate so powerfully is its refusal to oversimplify. Shankar blends rigorous insights from behavioural science with palpable real-world wisdom. She understands that change isn’t a linear process with predictable outcomes, nor is it a motivational slogan. Instead, she invites readers to see change as dynamic tension, a space where uncertainty and possibility coexist.
One of the strongest threads throughout the book is Shankar’s personal journey. She shares how, at a young age, a hand injury ended her ability to play violin, a loss that might have been purely tragic, yet became transformative. That story becomes a living example of how we attach identity to roles and skills, and how those attachments can both shape us and limit us. In exploring how she found the same joy, curiosity, and engagement in learning about the brain that she once found in music, Shankar highlights an overlooked truth: fulfilment isn’t tied to one domain, but to the richness of our presence and engagement in whatever sphere or action we undertake.
This insight parallels beautifully with Vedānta, which reminds us that the self is not confined to a role, a story, or a particular capacity. Identity belongs to the changing layers of mind and experience, while awareness itself remains fluid and unbound.
From a somatic lens, we are living organisms whose capacity for curiosity, connection, and exploration persists, even as the forms through which we express those qualities evolve.
Listen:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/75tZxxF0VjoCn4RpxYMqnV?si=9ed8ac7f4cb64caf
Read:
https://www.amazon.com.au/Other-Side-Change-Become-Makes-ebook/dp/B0F629SG9M
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