20/11/2025
✨ BIRTH STORY SHARE ✨
I am honoured to share this beautiful testimonial from a mama who trusted me through her pregnancy, Hypnobirthing preparation and postnatal journey. Her words speak to the power of safety, education and supportive care ❤️
“I always feared pregnancy and birth, and I didn’t understand why until I went through my own infertility and pregnancy journey. Now, looking back, I am so PROUD of my birth.
I had disconnected from the idea of being pregnant because of my PCOS and knowing my mum experienced many losses before having me. I was protecting my heart and mind. When we fell pregnant in 2024, I chose the private health system for consistent care and I was so lucky with the team I had. One of them was Ashlee. Through physio support pre- and post-birth, and Hypnobirthing, Ashlee helped me understand where my fear of birth truly came from what society and media have created for women.
I shared my fears with my husband and realised they were mostly about things I couldn’t control. Birthing in a private hospital made me feel safe. Hypnobirthing also made me reflect on my grandmothers who birthed in the 1920s and 1960s both Australia and Lebanon. Their stories, combined with the tools I learned through the Course, gave me the knowledge to advocate for myself and understand the levels of intervention available when needed.
I felt safe, supported, and like myself. I had my labour playlist, fairy lights, lollies, lavender oil, a HOT shower, and photos of my mum and mother-in-law from when my husband and I were born. I went from 3 to 9cm in the shower….Pushing was long, 1 hour and 45 minutes but I got the birth I wanted. When she came out, I grabbed her and stared at her little face. I realised the love I felt for her was the same love my mum would have felt meeting me. Such a beautiful intergenerational bond, especially after losing my mum 5 years ago. The pain went. The love overflowed. The tiredness set in. But the love grew and so did the pride.
My experience was my power, my choice, my time, my birth with my loving partner”.
- Steph, Joel & Estel