17/03/2021
💫Becoming a mum💫
Yes it's the most incredible adventure, and the best thing that happened to me.. I'm who I'm because I became a mum... I have learned so much... I did grow a lot but one thing is sure, growth doesn't happen without pain and challenges, unfortunately.
That how we grow, when we decide to change for us and for our kids...
When we take the step to change and become a better mum and not repeating that old pathern that often come from our carers in childhood, we all have been trough stuff, doesn't matter where we come from or if had a happy life as a child.. we all went through hard times... at school, at home, at friends... we all grow up with triggers and wrong beliefs about parenthood for exemple... but it is not a fatality.. things can change.
Becoming a mum comes naturally they say... no it doesn't...
When you give birth to you baby, you give birth to a new woman and this is where it all starts. Discovering the new YOU.
And it isnt a easy ride💕
That little soul choose you for a reason, for you to take that opportunity to grow.. to change and open on who you truly are ❤
For me it has been taugh... and I still struggle time to time but my responsibility is to be present and always do my best to be a better a mum.
My kids know how to challenge me.. to get the best and the worst out of me... so I can heal...and god knows how taugh it is.
Our photos are fun and lovely to see and its true, we love and support each other so much.
But behind the scene often it's an other story and I need to be clear on that...it can be pretty challenging and I can get angry, I can yell and loose my sh*ts completely.... its happens...to all of us MUMS!
Even to Yoga teachers ;)
We are only humans and it's ok to make mistakes if we know how to take actions to do better next time.
Apologising and telling them that my anger isnt their fault. Its my anger.
I choose to yell and get upset.. I can make other choices. Better choices.
My point is...don't be so hard on yourself...don't compare yourself, we are eternal learners...our kids are a blessing to our lives❤ and there is tools to get us where we want to be.
Its a choice though
Your choice
Love❤❤❤