07/08/2025
Sharing this fabulous information as almost every dyad I have consulted with this week has been sized at a minimum of 21mm & none of them were even remotely close to that!! š„“š©
It's been a while since I've done a fl**ge sizing reminder post.
When I first started this business, I used the rule of 'measure the ni**le and add 4mm'. I knew that smaller than the 'standard' size was better, but I still dread to think of how many people I oversized using that rule!
But in 2020 I decided to let people test out fl**ges in person (without them needing to purchase them). And I learnt that most people preferred a fl**ge that was much smaller than I originally thought. And I become unafraid to test out even smaller that what you might think possible and the results were surprising
The mothers seem to prefer a much smaller fl**ge than many probably even though possible.
I learnt by getting feedback and letting people come again and again to test out sizes. And in most cases going smaller was better.
I am so confident that mothers need smaller than I no longer sell anything bigger than 21mm (I do have some on hand for the 1500 mothers in the last 5 years and while I don't get feedback for everyone, the vast majority of the feedback I do get is overwhelmingly positive.
Interestingly, 1-2mm too big can be worse than way too big - my theory is because just a bit too much of ar**la is being pulled in and this causes the vast majority of issues.
Of course, if something is not broken, you don't need to fix it - but if you are having issues with expressing, go smaller - and if you are still having issues, go smaller again!
www.cherishedparenting.com.au/fl**ge-sizing-guide