31/12/2025
New Yearās Eve.
And honestly⦠itās just another night.
Not in a dismissive way.
Not because I donāt care.
I just donāt build much meaning around the date.
Every year this moment gets turned into a collective performative ritual.
A reset and a promise that tomorrow everything changes.
January 1st.
Hit the gym.
Eat better.
Do the thing.
And I get it.
It feels like a threshold.
But tomorrow is still just another day.
Same body and nervous system.
Same beliefs.
Most change doesnāt stick because it starts as a thought, not a belief.
And thoughts donāt survive pressure.
Work shows up.
Kids.
Partnership.
Life.
Chaos.
And slowly, almost without noticing,
youāre back where you started.
Itās not because you donāt want to change.
Everyone does.
Itās because you havenāt sat with yourself long enough
to see what actually keeps you stuck.
Real change isnāt loud.
It doesnāt start with motivation.
It starts with contact.
With sitting still.
With breathing.
With noticing patterns instead of trying to override them.
So if anything shifts between today and tomorrow, let it be simple.
5 minutes.
5 minutes to sit.
5 minutes to close your eyes.
5 minutes to breathe.
No fixing or forcing.
Just breathing and paying attention.
Weāll scroll for hoursā¦
but resist 5 minutes of stillness.
And that tells you something.
Do this every day and something will change.
Not dramatically, nor overnight.
But steadily over time.
You start to see yourself more clearly.
And underneath the noise, the roles, the stories, the pressureā¦
Thereās a truer version of you already there.
Thatās the one worth meeting.
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