15/02/2026
I get a full-body cringe when I watch people perform depth.
You know what I mean.
The perfectly timed tears.
The curated trauma.
The “vulnerable” story that somehow always lands on a sales pitch, even if that’s disguised.
And people love it.
Which honestly… disturbs me.
Because here’s the thing:
There is a difference between being embodied and delivering emotion well.
There is a difference between integration and a good story arc.
There is a difference between doing your shadow work and turning your wounds into a brand.
What I’m craving, what I respect, what actually changes lives, is this:
Self-responsibility.
Ownership.
Integration.
Completion.
Go deep.
Get the lesson.
Get the gold.
And then get out.
Shadow is not a personality.
Pain is not a product.
Depth is not a costume.
Your body knows the difference between lived truth and well-delivered performance long before your mind does.
And honestly?
I’m not here for theatre.
I’m here for transmutation.
There is an art to speaking authentically, and I have learned from the best,
How to craft a killer keynote,
How to “zen” the room,
The perfect temperature,
When to say what at the perfect time to get maximum results.
Pretty soon, I wanted to UNLEARN it because it felt manipulative and I knew I could do better,
Lead people in a way that didn’t make my stomach turn.
Having such deep trust in your craft, your message and yourself, knowing you are truly and PURELY embodied so you can deliver bone-truth articulation….
Now that is something that gets the juices flowing, heads turning and creating a wave that truly serves.