15/04/2026
I want to tell you about the woman ON THE OTHER SIDE... The one that no one tells you about!
We don’t know what we normalise until we start to move in another direction… and then of course it becomes so obvious, which is kinda cruel and totally unhelpful really.
That’s WHY people must share their stories and live out loud, because you never know when our experience will help someone else.
This is how we heal forward.
I have sat with women in the before and the after.
The difference is not subtle. It is total.
It’s not until the pain outweighs the fear that we do something…
Even when we know something “isn’t right”, if we have been living with this for a while, we’ve normalised it.
In its own crazy way, it’s safe… even if we’re not.
We don’t know what’s on the other side, and blind faith can be hard,
It starts with ONE step, one action.
You don’t have to see the entire staircase to take the first step…
I don’t think we can see the entire staircase until we take the first step…
We imagine the after as something we have to earn.
Something we have to be worthy of.
Something that happens when we finally get the business right, or the body right, or the relationship right.
We’re waiting for permission that was always ours to give ourselves.
We treat wholeness as a destination instead of a practice.
And so we keep arriving at the threshold and stepping back.
We feel the edge and retreat from it, but if we melt into the edge, we find more space there and a window into the next step.
The woman on the other side isn't different!
She's more herself,
So often we think we have to become a different person, and we don’t!
Yes, we can grow, evolve and learn more… but we are still… us.
Me, that girl who left the country bright-eyed, bushy-tailed and ready to conquer the world… I’m still HER.
Embodied self-trust is not built in the mind, it's built in the body, over time, with the right container… that is both fierce and tender, where we don’t pander to fragility.
Everything that has always been there gets to belong… the eros, the edge, the ambition, the tenderness.
She's tuned in. Tapped in. Turned on.
Her partner sees her differently.
Her clients feel her differently.
Her money moves differently.
Not because she changed, because she arrived.
This is what The Imaginarium is built for, I am calling in 2 women to share this with as the OG’s and at a foundational price. If you’ve been feeling the pull, take a look and see if it’s you ###