12/03/2026
Perspective taking is the ability to recognise that another person may experience the same situation differently to you.
It does not mean agreeing or ignoring your own needs. It means holding two ideas at the same time.
“My experience is real. Their experience might be different, and that makes sense.”
Children develop this skill slowly. Their perspective is shaped by things like:
➡️ what they have experienced before
➡️ what feels safe or familiar
➡️ what they have learned
➡️ what information they currently have
When we remember this, everyday moments can start to make more sense. It is about helping them understand people and relationships without losing themselves in the process.
Save this post and look out for part 2 where we explore how to support perspective taking during everyday situations!