13/03/2026
I must admit, this was a challenging case but one I hold close to my heart.
šLet me set the scene:
Co-sleeping 11 month old baby in the parent bed. Breastfeeding all night long.
One seriously distraught mummy who was feeling so anxious physically and mentally and was convinced sleep training could damage her attachment to her baby and be harmful due to the big, awful changes.
š But what are you to do when you are at your lowest point?
Every element of your life is suffering, and at the end of the day you are simply an organism requiring food, water, safety & SLEEP to literally survive?
I could hear the pain in this mumās voice and it was hard to witness someone so sleep deprived whilst also grappling with the reality that sleep training was the only track out (the concept of which had never even been explained to her-she thought cry it out was the only way..)
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So, I felt I was just last resort.
Perhaps the Devilās advocate for sleep training š„¹
BUT I DGAF BC I BELIEVE IN THIS THAT MUCH!!
So off to work we went-
āļøSleep education
āļøSleep environment (but no air con- dw we can work with this š)
āļø Age-appropriate routine for good & naps (involving many naps at grandmaās house too)
āļø Overnight plan for gradual reduction in feeds from one million to night weaned
āļøSettling method
Eeeek. Settling method was the sticking point.
The crying š.
Education around stress levels and communicative crying was explained and mum opted for a gentler, cot-side approach which I fully endorsed!
Butā¦
Over three nights it got so much worse!
Cot-side proved too overstimulating for this gorgeous boy.
So that was it, we really hit the ground running with an out of room method with support intervals in the room and we rapidly turned the corner!
Mum even felt so confident and excited she even took on nap training right away š„°
We now have a happily sleeping family and (almost) toddler who self settles, who is calm and thriving š
I will never judge your situation nor circumstances that led to it.
I will only support you in achieving the best sleep outcomes and reaching your sleep goals ā¤ļø
It was an absolute honour, Orlagh! š„°ā¤ļøš