10/11/2025
There was a time when I couldnât stop shaking from anxiety.
Days would pass without eating, just trying to hold myself together.
Iâd pour a wine, take a Va**um, anything to stop thinking and feeling.
Sleep became the only thing I looked forward to.
After years of being others emotional and physical punching bag. I took my power back! I realised healing was for me. Carrying the pain was hurting only me.
And though these things weren't my fault and it's certainly not ok what other people did, I realised at times, - I had a part to play.
I did stay.
I did put myself in unhealthy and dangerous situations.
I didn't trust my intuition.
I didn't speak up.
And EVERY TIME I didn't listen to and honour myself.
I got hurt.
And afterwards I'd call myself stupid. Because EVERY time, I KNEW.
I knew something wasn't right.
I felt myself shrinking.
The tingling sensation of friction and fear in my body.
And I talked myself out of it. Over and OVER.
It's almost as if I needed to learn the hard way.
That had to stop! I wasn't little anymore, I could speak up, I could walk away. I was free when I allowed myself to be.
That's why a lot of the healing work is actually forgiving OURSELVES.
Building unshakeable trust within ourselves.
Hearing and feeling your intuition/higher self is and listening to it is a skill that has to be learnt. As is learning to speak and take action for what is right for YOU.
Because since we were tiny we've been taught the complete opposite.
And look where that has gotten us.
Confused and consumed by our own uncertainty and guilt.
Instead, internalising everything that happens to us, thinking it's our fault, if only we did something different or better then we wouldn't have been hurt.
I'm here to remind you, that's not true.
Other peoples choices are NOT a reflection of you.
I've healed (and am still) and you can too.
You can't just wave a magic wand. It's an ongoing process.
Pain is always going to be unavoidable. But you can be better equipped for when life gives you lemons. đđ
You you can have the confidence, peace and happiness you long for.
And I want to help you get there. đ
If you'd like my guidance, reach out.
Franki x