27/02/2026
Some people say how you respond to trauma and adversity shows your true character. For many people, they won’t know their own capabilities or sense of certainty until they're faced with those life-defining moments.
These women are testament to what can happen when trauma, adversity and life-threatening medical conditions arise. When faced with cancer diagnosis or inherited cancer genes, these women chose - some unknowingly - to buck against societal norms and pave the way forward for future generations.
By being themselves and showing up with pride in their post-mastectomy body, these women are living examples of why surgeons and healthcare professionals must provide full and clear information about surgical options available at the time of mastectomy.
The conversations among surgeons, breast care nurses and their patients should be going something like this:
👂🏽“As your healthcare professional, I’m here to listen to you (the patient). I’m here to guide your decision making based on how you want your body to look, function and feel. My personal opinions are irrelevant. You must make the decision that is appropriate for your body.”
👂🏽“You want to go flat and not consider reconstruction? No problem. I’ve got you.”
👂🏽“You’re happy to live with one b**b? Sure thing. We can make that reality.”
👂🏽“Keen to reconstruct breasts with your own tissue or implants? No worries. Let’s talk about your options and here’s a list of pros and cons to consider.”
Our healthcare and medical professionals have an obligation to listen to their patients and ensure they are equipped with a long list of pros and cons about each option before deciding.
As stated by my friend and trailblazing changemaker Robyn Smith from Inherited Cancers Australia: “It doesn't matter what decision you make after a mastectomy (flat or reconstruction - both are valid options), as long as you are given information about ALL your post mastectomy options.”
This article appearing in Marie Claire Australia is a massive step forward for flat advocacy. Congratulations to these amazingly strong women and thank you to the editorial team at Marie Claire for representing all forms of female humanity.
Australian women who have had single or double mastectomy without reconstruction can connect with others at Flat Life Australia