11/09/2025
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This whole period can be so confusing and the internet only adds to the confusion, so to break it down as simply as possible, there are usually TWO main problems seen at this time:
1ď¸âŁYour baby wakes more frequently during naps and overnight
As mentioned in Part 2, this is likely because they wake up when transitioning between sleep stages or completing sleep cycles. Your #1 focus needs to be the absolute basics as these can help those transitions easier, so Iâm talking about:
đ A non-distracting sleep environment
đ Great sleep hygiene that allows their body to prepare and calm for sleep
đ A consistent and regular rhythm to sleep so they can predict when it will occur
đ ADEQUATE SLEEP PRESSURE. I WILL SHOUT THIS FROM THE ROOFTOPS! đ
In some cases, if youâve nailed all of these and youâre still struggling with sleep. It can be helpful to consider what theyâre expecting at the wakes, and you may need to adjust how theyâre settled and/or resettled. Most parents think this is the *only* thing they can/should do at the 4 month regression, but to me - itâs your last resort (as itâs the hardest!).
2ď¸âŁYour baby is harder to settle to sleep
Your baby now enters sleep through lighter NREM rather than active sleep. This shift can make the âfalling asleepâ part more challenging. Here are the main ways I improve this for familyâs:
đ For a second time, ADEQUATE SLEEP PRESSURE! Most families that I work with at this time simply have children who arenât tired enough to go to sleep easily.
đ A consistent method to fall asleep. This helps baby to learn what to expect at sleep time and can allow them to fall into sleep easier than if theyâre worried you will change it up all the time.
đ Try settling for 20ish minutes and as you are more consistent, wind that back (i.e. 15 minutes into sleep, then 10 minutes into sleep and so forth).
SAVE this to come back to as these are the real techniques I use with my clients!
As always, leave a comment below if you have any questions.