11/03/2026
Astounds me that when mums go away for work it’s a “beautiful break” but when dads go “they are wonderful providers - the f*ck 🤯
Me going away realistically means pumping every 3-4 hours to maintain my milk supply while working around the clock, having frozen meals packed in the freezer for dinners, SO much organization and prep for the kids, medicine and food schedules for dad to follow and a hell of a lot of angst. Don’t get me wrong, my husbands amazing but the rhetoric rhat when mum leaves to go work it’s a damn holiday is so wild. Although, on one hand I’m very excited to sleep 😂
On a different note, Hux has never taken a bottle, still breastfeeds 3628292 times a day & has never been away from me so I’m so worried for him and his ability to regulate his nervous system without me here to feed - any tips would be amazing!