30/11/2025
Without inner child healing, we unintentionally project our hurt onto our children… continuing cycles we desperately want to break.
Lately, Isabel has been wanting only her Dad for almost everything, and rejecting me. At first I brushed it off, but nearly 3 weeks in, it started triggering deep wounds of rejection and feeling unimportant.
This morning she woke up, looked at me and said, “Where is Daddy?”
My heart sank.
I sat in meditation and let the sadness move through me. I cried, I breathed, I watched the thoughts:
“Is this how it is now?”
“Have I lost my connection with her?”
I didn’t come out feeling amazing, but I did feel grounded. Present. Clear.
And instead of getting angry at her or trying to make her explain herself, I shared my feelings with Tim and listened to my intuition.
And then it clicked…
She has gone through so much change lately, leaving our home, her neighbours, her routines, going to a new country, new food, new language. Everything feels unfamiliar.
The one constant that hasn’t changed is her Dad!!
Even I am changing, because I’m pregnant.
Of course she’s anchoring into the safest thing she knows.
Understanding this didn’t remove the sting… but it helped me stay compassionate instead of reactive.
This is why inner child work matters.
It gives us, as parents, the tools to hold our own emotions instead of handing them to our children.
It helps us respond instead of project.
It helps us break the cycle.
My next Inner Child Healing Course begins January 19th.
If you feel the calling to change the way you react in your relationships, with your family, your partner, your children, and yourself, join us.
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