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The Departure The Departure was once a studio & advocacy space located at The Mill. It is currently existing in a transient form without a fixed location.

Independent death worker & end-of-life consultant at The Departure đŸ–€
DEAD AIR, a live, weekly radio show about death & dying: 10-11am (AEST) Mondays on 94.9 MainFM Please contact Hayley regarding art-related commissions such as bespoke ceramic ashes urns. She can also recommend reputable funeral industry businesses and individuals working in end-of-life care, other contemporary artists working in the realm of death, and give advice on running a Death Café in your own community.

On today’s episode of DEAD AIR: My special guests Kate, Stephen, Jane & I had a great chat about the Castlemaine Theatre...
10/11/2025

On today’s episode of DEAD AIR: My special guests Kate, Stephen, Jane & I had a great chat about the Castlemaine Theatre Company’s new production ‘Piece of Mind’
 also a new podcast episode with Doulabarb, Shannon’s Bridge and unpopular opinion #1, an article on alkaline hydrolysis in QLD, and don’t forget to purchase a ticket for this weekend’s online Lifting The Lid International Festival of Death & Dying
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đŸ–€ Live: 94.9fm local frequency or stream mainfm.net Mondays 10-11am AEST
đŸ–€ Later: uploads at hayleywest.com.au/radio & MAINfm Mixcloud

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10/11/2025

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UNPOPULAR OPINION #2

This is probably going to go down like a lead balloon - but hear me out.

Occupational Therapists (OTs) are highly skilleded allied health professionals who help people of all ages perform daily activities and live more independently. They assess functional limitations from illness, injury, or disability and provide therapy using techniques and equipment to improve a person's ability to participate in daily tasks like self-care, work, and leisure activities. OTs work in many settings, including hospitals, schools, and homes, and can help with a wide range of issues, from physical and developmental challenges to mental health concerns.

This works well when the limitation to function is stable or has a goal of improving. Expert input from an OT in the early stages of life-limiting or terminal diagnoses is wonderful.

However, the system as it stands hamstrings OTs and families in providing rapid access to aides and equipment when someone is in end of life care (approximately the last year of life) or terminal phase (last week/days/hours).

That is because caring for someone in end of life care is a changing landscape - with adjustments and new problem solving needed rapidly and usually ‘after hours’.

Unless the family has the health and death literacy (and money!) to know what they need and access it, they can be faced with extremely long wait times for even simple pieces of equipment.

Last week, we had several clear examples of this with are service provider (who specialises in support for people at risk of homelessness) saying they were waiting 8months to get approval for a shower chair (approx $120 to buy). Now, if their clients had money, they could walk into an equipment shop and buy one.

We are aware of families who have purchased hospital beds, hoists, oxygen concentrators and simple 4wheel walkers because they knew that the system couldn’t react in time.

“But what if they buy the wrong thing? Surely it would be better to wait for the OT to see them?”

Yes - I’m an ideal world where OTs weren’t run ragged seeing people, preparing endless reports and fighting to get aides and equipment for their patients through NDIS or the new Support at Home program.

But as a very wise man once said - “You can have it fast, free or perfect
. Pick two!”

The gap between identifying a need and getting equipment delivered often is hours in end of life care. Never seen it happen that fast involving an OT.

When it comes to keeping people in their own homes for their last days, palliative care services are very good at reminding the clinical team at large that if the person has the capacity to make the decision to use a ramp that is 3 degrees too steep and understands the potential issues - then it is no one’s business but the person.

It’s called ‘dignity of risk’.

Another handy phrase is ‘better than nothing’.

If you can loan someone a wheelchair that might not be what the OT has suggested but gives that person the ability to get to his grandson’s footy grand final for the last time - that is better than them missing out and respecting their dignity of risk.

“Oh but she’s lifting him onto an office chair. So unsafe”.

Yup - and they have probably lived that way for longer than you have been alive. All health professionals - including OTs can give advice and suggestions but they are not orders or law. They have ad much right to inspect and approve your fridge contents as they do in approving something you did to ‘make it work’ when your loved one was dying

So, to wind up this rant for the one person who is still reading (Hi Mum!) - I would encourage everyone who works in health to have a think about what they would do for their loved ones if they couldn’t access aides and equipment in a timely and affordable manner. Would you leave them sitting in a hospital bed (which costs the taxpayer upwards of $2,000 a day - just saying) OR would you move heaven and earth and accept something slightly less than perfect for those precious and ever changing last days?

Save our precious OTs for other areas - don’t make them an extra hurdle for families to clear in end of life care

This weekend is the fabulous Lifting The Lid International Festival of Death & Dying . My talk is on at 6.30pm AEDT Sund...
09/11/2025

This weekend is the fabulous Lifting The Lid International Festival of Death & Dying . My talk is on at 6.30pm AEDT Sunday night 16 November. Hope you can make it đŸ–€

Lifting The Lid Festival of Death and Dying - online 72 hours of conversations, workshops, art, and connection as we continue to open up vital, life-affirming dialogues about death and dying. 14 - 16 Nov 2025.

Info & tickets -https://www.tickettailor.com/events/liftingthelid/1853754

As our relationship with death evolves, how can we create meaningful new approaches? Hayley shares how her work across community radio, artistic practice, and the death care space uses creative collaboration to build death literacy and foster new rituals. She’ll explore how artists and death care professionals can work together to evolve traditions and co-create less conventional practices for our diverse communities.

Hayley West is a regionally based death worker and artist whose practice opens creative and candid conversations about mortality. She is the host of DEAD AIR on community radio and operates The Departure, an end-of-life service focused on sustainable, meaningful farewells. Her work fosters death literacy through community collaboration.

https://www.thedeparture.com.au/
https://www.hayleywest.com.au/

Join us online for 72 hours of conversations, workshops, art, and connection as we continue to open up vital, life-affirming dialogues about death and dying.
14 - 16 November 2025.

Tickets (various affordable options) and full schedule with international time zones available now at https://buytickets.at/liftingthelid/1853754

08/11/2025

It’s an uncomfortable topic for many but experts say understanding your parents’ wishes before they pass will save additional heartache later on.

08/11/2025

Proponents of alkaline hydrolysis, a process of liquidising human remains, say the technology is a cheaper, greener and more ‘calming’ way of returning to the earth

08/11/2025

Todays’ artwork from the Wall of Death Exhibition.

Artist - Hayley West (The Queen of all things Death)
Ammit, 2017
Ceramic

‘Ammit’ is from an ongoing series where Hayley collects handmade discarded vessels from op shops, and creates lids to turn them into cremation urns, giving them a new life.

Come and see Hayleys work along with 29 other artists here at the MoM gallery - we’re open all weekend!

All works are available for purchase - DM us for more deets j.west .departure

06/11/2025

🩓🩛 Isn't this an interesting service?! 🐘🩒 This company, Scattering Safaris is offering an African safari-themed ash scattering service.

It might be time to get mum or dad out of the cupboard and take them on a safari!

What do you think? Is trading the urn for the Serengeti something you'd like to do? A final roar for the soul that never could be tamed?

xLisa

Best in the biz and my fabulous mentor! I đŸ–€ Doulabarb - Barb Ferguson
06/11/2025

Best in the biz and my fabulous mentor! I đŸ–€ Doulabarb - Barb Ferguson

NEW EPISODE TODAY
Ever wondered what really happens in those final moments before someone dies, or how a death doula can turn a family's grief into something meaningful? In this episode, I chat with Barb Ferguson, a seasoned end-of-life doula, about her hands-on work with dying, death, and everything after.

05/11/2025

“I am on Earth to play and learn then perish”
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05/11/2025

There’s a moment when a family comes to understand what it truly means to bring their person home.

Wayne had been in residential care for the past 18 months. When he died, his wife knew it was important for him to return home, to the place where the air and light felt familiar, where love lingered in the space they had created together.

With the support of a cool plate, Wayne was able to rest at home.

Over the days that followed, she and their son found their own rhythm with him again. Sitting together. Reading. Sharing tea. Letting the house feel full in a different way. Wayne’s beloved dogs were close by, their loyal presence gentle and knowing, quietly watching, quietly being.

As Wayne’s home vigil came to an end, his body was wrapped in a white shroud and a layer of 100-year-old lace, secured with silk scarves chosen by his family. Every detail held care and intention.

What unfolded in that home was simple and deeply human. A space of time, understanding and quiet healing.

🔗 Learn more about our home vigil practice and cooling plates: https://www.liferites.com.au/home-vigil-and-cool-plate

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04/11/2025

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03/11/2025

A journey through Berlin’s cemetery cafĂ©s—inviting green spaces where locals gather for cake, coffee, and community between life and death.

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