15/11/2025
Something incredible happened yesterday.
Through an exchange of voice notes with a dear friend I came to understand a pattern of behaviour that had been holding me back. It was so subtle I don’t think I would have uncovered it by myself. But my wise friend with her bird’s-eye view recognised it and gently reflected what she could see.
My behaviour - cleverly disguised as integrity – was actually an inconspicuous form of self-sabotage causing me to dim down my achievements and stand in my own way.
As I sat with this huge realisation I remembered something similar had happened with a client during the week. Through the questions, reflections and spaciousness of our session she uncovered a subtle pattern of her own. After our call she took action on what she had discovered, creating a brilliant outcome and avoiding a path that would have left her with significant regrets. It was a profound realisation to witness and hold space for.
These empowering experiences highlighted for me the importance of having someone in our corner who can recognise our blind spots and point them out to us with honesty and care. So often we just can’t see these subtle patterns for ourselves, but when we do uncover them they allow us to break free from limiting beliefs and shine beautifully and brightly.
If you want to deepen your confidence so you can bring the whispers of your heart to life, find someone who not only cheers you on, but is also able to see and reflect the unconscious behaviours that might be holding you back. That kind of support is invaluable. 💖