24/07/2025
This is something I hear often from my clients in clinic.
And as a woman in early perimenopause who supports other women through this lifestage—this is what I want you to know:
Somewhere between hot flushes, mental load, and a never-ending to-do list…
your libido might have packed up and gone quiet.
But it’s not gone.
It’s just resting.
In perimenopause, our bodies are constantly adapting.
Your spark doesn’t vanish—it steps back when your body doesn’t feel safe, nourished, or rested.
And it’s okay if that spark returns slowly.
It’s also okay if you’re not even sure you want it back.
There’s no one right way to be.
What helped me reconnect?
✨ Romance books (yes, even as a former horror lover!)
✨ Little moments of connection
✨ Actual rest—not just ticking the self-care box
📖 Currently obsessed with and her writing—beautiful, honest, and full of aliveness.
Swipe through this carousel if you’ve ever felt disconnected from desire.
There’s no shame in that. Only curiosity, compassion, and choice.
💗 Let me know in the comments—what’s helped you feel more connected to you lately?