08/09/2025
🌱 Why do certain people “trigger” us so deeply?
It’s easy to think that the problem lies in them — their behavior, their words, their attitude. But here’s the real secret:
We don’t actually react to who they are… we react to a version of them we’ve created in our own world.
Every relationship we have — with parents, partners, colleagues, even whole groups or organisations — is filtered through the “identities” we’ve built up over time. If someone feels triggering, it’s usually because the identity we’ve created of them is colliding with the negative identities we carry within ourselves.
That’s why two people can see the same person in totally different ways — one sees kindness, the other sees criticism. It’s not about the person; it’s about the the image you’ve created to deal with that person.
This is where the Mace Energy Method comes in. By clearing those old negative identities, the emotional charge dissolves. Suddenly, you’re free to respond instead of react. Relationships soften. Peace returns.
✨ The truth is: the trigger isn’t the other person. The trigger is within us — and once it’s gone, you see others and life differently.