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06/03/2026

How to tell a relationship is genuinely unhealthy?

Here's 7 signs:

1️⃣ You’re constantly explaining basic respect and how you want to be treated.
2️⃣ Your partner rarely takes accountability.
3️⃣ You keep thinking “If I just try harder, it’ll get better.”
4️⃣ You’re focused on changing your partner.
5️⃣ There’s a third person in the picture.
6️⃣ You have the same fights over and over, and nothing changes.
7️⃣ Over time, you feel more stuck than loved.

What if you recognize your relationship here? You might expect: “Run.”

Not always.

First, it helps to get your footing back—heal your patterns, rebuild your emotional strength, and then decide from a calm, clear place what’s actually right for you.

That’s exactly what our self-therapy course "Codependency" is designed to support.

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04/03/2026

How to not get attached? A psychologist's advice ⤵️

You don't:)

Getting attached is normal. Missing them, wanting to be close, imagining a future together. That's healthy, attachment actually makes us happier and stronger.

The problem is when attachment becomes dependency:

– You obsess over them
– You can't function normally
– You put them above yourself

If every relationship turns codependent, that's a pattern you need to learn how to regulate.

The "Codependency" self-therapy course guides you through simple steps from dependency to healthy love.

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02/03/2026

For years, I blamed bad luck in love... that all the good ones were taken... that I lived in the wrong city.

It never crossed my mind that my own patterns were keeping me single.

After another breakup left me devastated, I finally saw a therapist. We dug into why I kept choosing the wrong people. It was a revelation.

Realizing I'd been sabotaging myself? Brutal. But that awareness changed everything. It's how I finally found real love.

If this sounds familiar, you don't need years of expensive therapy to get there.

The "Anti Loneliness" self-therapy program gives you what 30 therapy sessions would (at the cost of one).

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01/03/2026

If you want love but keep hitting the same wall, it’s worth asking: what’s getting in the way?

Wrong places, unhelpful patterns, missing the right signals—there’s usually a reason.

That’s exactly what our self-therapy program “Anti Loneliness” helps you uncover and shift.

26/02/2026

Phrases that can sabotage dating:

– “All men want one thing.”
– “There are no good men.”
– “Men are all jerks.”

It’s not even the words, it’s the beliefs underneath. They can feel protective, like they’ll save you from getting hurt or used.

But they often do the opposite: they add a filter to how you see people, so you start noticing only what confirms the story you already believe.

Do you agree?

23/02/2026

Have you ever tried these fragrances?

20/02/2026

"I know there's no reason to be jealous... but I still am"

When your partner hasn't done anything wrong, but anxiety takes over anyway, that's a sign of neurotic jealousy.

There are 3 types of jealousy:

Neurotic — all in your head
Mixed — triggered by past wounds + current behavior
Rational — there's actually a real reason

Each type needs a different approach. Sometimes it's about setting boundaries and talking it out. Other times, it's healing old wounds and building self-worth.

Good news? You can work through any type of jealousy with the help of self-therapy and psychology.

18/02/2026

There's no harder task than managing yourself. Seriously.

You can be incredibly strong, but the moment emotions surge or intrusive thoughts take over, all that strength evaporates. Before you know it, you're saying or doing something you'll regret.

16/02/2026

The scariest thing for someone with anxious attachment? 👇

A breakup.

It doesn’t feel like “the relationship ended.” It can feel like YOU ended: "Without him, I don’t know what to do."

So you try harder and harder, overthinking, monitoring, apologizing, people-pleasing — anything to keep them from leaving.

But the painful paradox is: those “efforts” often push the relationship further away. It becomes a loop.

13/02/2026

Can you truly change your attachment style and find secure love? 👇

Honestly?

❌ You CAN'T completely rewire it, it's been part of you since childhood.

But here's the good news: you don't need to...

✅ You CAN make your attachment style more secure. Here's what changes:

- Less anxiety in relationships
- More trust in your partner
- Better control over jealousy, anger, and resentment
- A stronger sense of self-worth

You might still feel anxious sometimes — but you'll know how to handle it without pushing people away. The result? Warmer, more stable, genuinely happy relationships.

10/02/2026

Have you ever heard of “protest behavior”? 👇

It’s a set of moves people with anxious (or anxious-avoidant) attachment use to get reassurance and pull their partner closer, usually when they feel insecure.

Examples:

🔹 Picking a fight to test, “Do you even care?”
🔹 Not replying on purpose so they’ll worry and reach out
🔹 Criticizing or dismissing them to feel more in control
🔹 Pulling away to make them chase you
🔹 Making strict demands to feel valued
🔹 Flirting with others to calm the fear of being left

It can “work” in the moment—but over time it creates distance and wears the relationship down.

05/02/2026

Do reliable guys even exist?

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