03/23/2022
ACIM goes on to say: “Guilt feelings induce fears of retaliation or abandonment and this ensures the future will be like the past”
As I’ve said in the past, my passion is blending ancient wisdom with modern science. To me, it’s the best of both worlds.
Here, we have the wisdom from a spiritual text like ACIM explaining exactly how our autonomic nervous system works with our brain and past memories to keep us safe!
Any fear-based thoughts or memories will continue to loop over and over again in your brain because it’s trying to keep you safe. It doesn’t want you repeating fearful or dangerous behaviours that have harmed you in the past.
The only problem is, is that as you loop on fear, through a process called ‘catastrophizing’, your hippocampus will bring forward MORE fear-based memories and you just spiral downwards into such a fear state that your autonomic nervous system will trigger freeze mode to keep you stuck. It fears that if you act on anything, you will put yourself in harm's way. I see this happen with my patients all the time!
Unfortunately, the product of this is a future that looks exactly like the past. No changes, no unfamiliar. Sounds bad but since you survived it in the past (maybe you didn’t exactly thrive. BUT you did survive), your brain is looking at the odds as good. As long as we keep repeating the past, we know we can survive.
If you would like to stop merely surviving and begin to truly thrive, you need to get into the unfamiliar (ie. The present moment) and show your brain the feedback of “this is safe”. This is literally the exact process that I have turned into a self-guided online program. It takes you out of your familiar stress and pain patterns and forces you to get unfamiliar so that you can shift out of freeze mode and back into the healing parasympathetic state! Link in bio