SoleBalance Therapies

12/24/2025

In the realm of healing, we often encounter individuals at their most vulnerable, standing at the threshold of their own resilience. Where words have fallen short, the memory of sensation lingers, a distant echo, and the body has learned to endure by subtly dimming its radiance.
Trauma insidiously convinces them they're solitary figures in the darkness, narrowing their world, silencing their body, and drawing their nervous system inward, as if cradling a fragile flame that must remain hidden. It weaves a narrative of isolation, whispering destructive truths that they're unworthy, invisible, and incomprehensible.
In the healing arts, our approach is not to hastily rescue them from this darkness but to gently sit with them, bearing witness, steadfastly present without attempting to fix, force, or demand anything until the body is ready to reclaim its narrative. Often, the most profound act of compassion is simply being a steady, grounding presence while they navigate their way back to themselves.
I've come to realize that the journey of healing doesn't always commence with the individual discovering their inner light; sometimes it begins when another person generously shares theirs, not in overwhelming abundance but in gentle, soothing warmth, like the soft glow of a lantern on a long, dark night, reassuring them, “You are not alone.”
When trauma has conditioned the body to tense, to suppress, and to hide, it's not because the light has vanished; it's been safeguarded, nestled deep within, awaiting the right conditions to unfurl again.
With gentle care, unwavering consistency, and profound compassion, we enable the nervous system to release its grip, rediscovering the capacity to rest.
In my practice, I frequently witness the subtle yet pivotal moment when something shifts within a person—their breath deepens, their jaw relaxes, or their hands unclench. It's a quiet, almost imperceptible sign that the body is not being fixed but reminded—reminded of warmth, of rhythm, and of companionship in the darkness.
I offer my light in subtle ways: the reassuring cadence of my hands, the warmth of my presence, and the quiet affirmation that hope still exists, even when obscured.
I'll sit with you in the darkness as long as necessary, but I'll also remind you of the warmth of sunlight on your skin.
Healing isn't about transformation into someone new; it's about reconnecting with the innate light within you—a light that may fluctuate but never truly extinguishes.

12/20/2025

When you were young, someone likely taught you about physical hygiene. You learned how to wash your hands, brush your teeth, and cover your mouth when you were sick. You learned that these things mattered not only for your own health, but for the health of the people around you. We understand this instinctively now. We know that unaddressed physical illness spreads, weakens, and affects entire systems, not just one body. But very few of us were ever taught about emotional hygiene.

No one sat us down and explained that emotions, when left unattended, also move through systems and are carried in tone, posture, breath, and nervous system state. How chronic stress, unresolved grief, unprocessed anger, or long-held fear don’t stay contained neatly inside one person, but ripple outward, shaping relationships, households, workplaces, and even the bodies of those nearby.

Science now shows us why this happens. Emotions are not abstract experiences; they are biological events. Every emotional state creates a chemical response in the body. Stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline surge through the bloodstream. The immune system shifts. Inflammation rises. Heart rate and breathing patterns change. Over time, a body living in chronic emotional strain begins to show physical symptoms. Pain increases, sleep becomes disrupted, and digestion falters. The nervous system stays on high alert, exhausting the tissues it is meant to protect. And just as physical illness is contagious, emotional dysregulation is too.

The nervous system is designed to co-regulate. We unconsciously mirror the states of those around us through facial expression, vocal tone, body language, and subtle cues processed by the brain long before conscious thought. This is why being around someone in chronic distress can leave you feeling drained or unwell, even if no words were spoken. The body is reading signals and responding as if danger or imbalance is present.

Emotional hygiene is not about suppressing feelings or being endlessly positive; it is about tending to the inner landscape with the same care we give the physical body. It is the practice of noticing when emotions need movement, expression, rest, or support before they harden into patterns that strain the nervous system and spill into the tissues.

In the bodies I have worked with, I have seen what happens when emotional hygiene is ignored. The fascia tightens like fabric being pulled too long in one direction. Muscles brace as if waiting for an impact that never comes. Breath becomes shallow, and pain appears without an apparent injury. I have also seen what happens when emotions are given space and gentle attention. The body softens, and the nervous system exhales. Healing begins not because something was fixed, but because something was finally tended.

So, why does this matter? Because emotions live in the body. They influence physiology, immunity, pain, and resilience. And when we care for them with intention, we don’t just protect our own health; we create healthier systems for everyone we touch.

Emotional hygiene is not a luxury, and it is not optional. Just as a virus can move unseen through a room, unprocessed emotional stress moves through the nervous system, the fascia, and the people around us. The body does not distinguish between external and internal threats. Chronic emotional strain activates the same stress pathways as physical danger, elevating cortisol, suppressing immune function, altering inflammation, and reshaping how the brain and tissues respond to the world. When emotions are never tended, the body eventually takes on the burden of expression through pain, fatigue, illness, or shutdown. This is not a weakness. It is biology asking for care.

So I invite you to consider this not as self-improvement, but as responsibility. Tending to your emotional hygiene is how you protect your body, your nervous system, and the spaces you move through. It is how you show up cleaner, clearer, and safer for yourself and for others. Just as you would not knowingly spread illness, you can learn not to carry unexamined emotional weight into every room, relationship, and touch. When emotions are acknowledged, metabolized, and given space to move, the body softens. Systems regulate. Healing becomes possible. This is not about perfection. It is about care. And the body has been waiting for us to understand that all along.

12/13/2025

Understanding the science of trauma begins with recognizing that the body reacts far faster than the mind. Trauma is not only a story of what happened, but it is also a physiological imprint that alters how a person breathes, moves, feels, and processes the world. When something overwhelms the system, the body responds in ways that bypass thought entirely. These reactions live deep in the nervous system, the muscles, the fascia, and the receptors that gather and interpret sensation.

The limbic system is the body’s emotional lighthouse. It scans every environment for signs of danger and remembers the subtle details of past overwhelm long before a person is consciously aware of them. When something familiar touches that memory, even gently, the limbic system illuminates the entire internal landscape as if the original threat were happening again. It is not betraying the person. It is trying to keep them safe.

The amygdala acts as the guardian of survival. It does not differentiate between yesterday and today. It only knows what once felt threatening. When it senses a reminder, it signals the body to prepare. Your heart rate rises, breathing shifts, and muscles contract. This is why trauma responses appear instantly and powerfully. They are ancient reflexes shaped for protection.

The insula is a crucial region of the cerebral cortex that allows a person to feel themselves from within. It determines how much sensation and emotion the system can tolerate at any given moment. When danger is perceived, the insula may dim internal awareness to prevent overwhelm, creating numbness or dissociation. Or it may amplify it, making every sensation feel sharp. It is the body’s internal dimmer switch, adjusting intensity moment by moment.

The vagus nerve, which connects the brain to the heart, lungs, gut, and organs, shifts into its protective pathways during trauma. This can create shallow breathing, emotional distance, digestive shutdown, or a muted sense of connection. When safety returns, the vagus nerve slowly widens its communication again, allowing the body to reenter a state of rest, integration, and presence.

Muscles respond instantly to threat. Inside each fiber, chemical messengers activate actin and myosin, creating contraction patterns that mirror the body’s survival needs. These patterns are not random. They are survival etched into muscle memory, created by repetition and necessity.

Fascia is the body’s great storyteller, a living web that surrounds every muscle, bone, organ, and nerve. It responds to trauma by thickening, tightening, and changing its internal fluidity. Collagen fibers reorganize themselves into protective shapes. Mechanoreceptors, proprioceptors, and nociceptors within the fascia begin sending altered messages to the brain, shaped by what the body has endured. Fascia can hold emotional energy, bracing patterns, and unprocessed survival responses like a woven archive of experience. It is not just connective tissue; it is a sensory organ that records the history of what you have lived through.

Trauma imprints through every one of these systems. Neural pathways fire in practiced patterns. Breath becomes guarded. Movement becomes shaped by what once hurt, and the body protects until it believes it no longer needs to. And in many people, that protection outlives the original danger.

Understanding this science allows both clients and bodyworkers to approach the body with compassion rather than confusion. Trauma responses are intelligent adaptations, not weaknesses. The body is not malfunctioning. It is remembering. And with the right conditions of safety, warmth, steady touch, and presence, these patterns can soften and reorganize.

When we understand what is happening inside, we honor the body not as something to be corrected, but as something that, in every way it knew, has tried to protect the person carrying it. This is the foundation of trauma-informed bodywork. It is where science meets art, and where healing begins.

12/09/2025

✨ C3–C7: Where Anatomy Meets Emotion ✨

The nerves that flow from C3 to C7 do far more than power the muscles of your neck, shoulders, arms, and hands.
They’re also deeply connected to how you breathe, communicate, reach, receive, and hold yourself in the world.

C3 & C4 support your diaphragm and breathing. When these nerves are restricted, breath feels shallow and life can feel heavy. Emotionally, this area holds unspoken words, grief sitting in the upper chest, and the feeling of carrying too much on your shoulders.

C5 helps lift your arm and stabilize your shoulder. Energetically, it reflects your ability to reach out for support, opportunities, or connection. When stressed, this area often holds fear of asking for help or the belief that you must carry everything alone.

C6 supports wrist extension, strength, and the ability to hold on. Emotionally, it mirrors how tightly you grip life—control, expectations, or the past. When released, it brings the freedom to soften and trust.

C7 powers the triceps and grounding movements like pushing. On an emotional level, it represents boundaries, personal power, and the ability to say, “This is my space.” When this gateway opens, people often feel clearer, more confident, and more embodied.

When these cervical nerves unwind through Spinal Flow, people don’t just feel physical relief—
they reconnect to breath, expression, strength, and the emotional truths held deep within their bodies.

Healing isn’t only structural…
It’s a return to who you are beneath the tension.

12/07/2025

True relief often comes from the unexpected. Most people chase jaw pain at the surface, never realizing the tension beneath their fingertips is part of a larger system that includes the tongue, the diaphragm, the pelvic floor, and the emotional reflexes shaped over a lifetime. Intra oral work opens doors most people never knew were closed.

Inside the mouth lies one of the most influential networks in the entire body. The TMJ is not an isolated hinge. It is a command center connected to your pelvis through deep fascial lines, to your breath through the diaphragm, and to your stress response through the vagus nerve. When these pathways become overwhelmed by bracing, clenching, grief, inflammation, or injury, the body begins to compensate in ways that slowly reshape posture and behavior. The jaw tightens. The neck shortens. The shoulders lift. The sacrum rotates. And the nervous system forgets what ease feels like.

Deep fascial work is for those who have lived with headaches that never fully go away. For those who wake with clenched teeth. For those with tinnitus, dizziness, jaw popping, neck pain, digestive tension, emotional holding in the throat, or exhaustion from constantly bracing. It is for those who have tried everything, yet still feel something is being missed.

Inside the mouth, the small muscles tell the truth. They reveal old survival patterns. They store stress that was never given a voice. They tighten during loss, soften during safety, and influence how the entire body responds to the world. When these tissues are released with skilled, gentle intention, people often describe feeling lighter, clearer, grounded, and surprisingly emotional in the best way. The face softens. The breath deepens. The spine lengthens. And the nervous system finally exhale.

11/29/2025

The River and the Riverbed: The Lymphatic Myofascial Relationship.

The body is not made of separate parts, no matter how many textbooks try to divide it. It is one continuous conversation. One river system. One woven landscape of structure, fluid, memory, and sensation. Nowhere is this more beautifully seen than in the relationship between the fascia and the lymphatic system.

Fascia is not simply connective tissue. It is the body’s inner forest floor, the soft earth through which everything grows and travels. It holds more sensory nerve endings than the muscles themselves. It houses the interstitium, a vast fluid reservoir now recognized as one of the largest “organs” by volume. It creates the very terrain through which lymph must move.

Lymph is the traveler, the cleansing tide, the quiet river that removes waste, regulates immunity, transports nutrients, and responds instantly to inflammation or injury. But lymph does not move on its own. It depends on movement, breath, pressure changes, and the softness of the tissues it flows through. Its vessels sit embedded inside the fascial layers, anchored to the very fibers that bodyworkers stretch, melt, warm, and free.

This is why these systems cannot be separated. This is why fascial lymphatic flow works. The Long Method is my favorite technique taught by Katrina Gubler Long.

When fascia becomes dense or dehydrated, the interstitial fluid thickens, pressure gradients collapse, and lymphatic capillaries cannot properly open and close. Imagine trying to push water through a dry, compacted sponge. The lymph has nowhere to go. Post-surgical clients feel this acutely. Trauma, inflammation, surgical scarring, or immobility cause the fascial planes to lose their slide, which in turn traps swelling, slows immune function, and increases pain.

But when we touch fascia with slow, intentional, directional work, something extraordinary happens. Mechanotransduction, the cells' response to mechanical pressure, shifts the behavior of fibroblasts and immune cells. Collagen fibers begin to reorganize. Hyaluronic acid changes viscosity. The interstitial fluid becomes less stagnant. The tissue warms, hydrates, and begins to breathe again. And the lymphatic system, finally uncompressed, begins to move with ease.

You cannot restore lymph flow without changing the landscape it flows through. You cannot free swelling without freeing the structures that hold it. You cannot separate the river from the riverbank.

This is not guesswork. It is anatomy.

The superficial lymphatic system lives in the loose areolar fascia, a layer designed to glide. The deep lymphatic system lies within the deep fascia surrounding muscle compartments. When these gliding surfaces stiffen, every lymph vessel tethered to them loses its ability to pump. This is why many clients feel more relief with fascial lymphatic flow than with lymphatic work alone. We are restoring the architecture that lymph depends on.

In post-surgical care, this becomes especially profound. Scar tissue alters glide. Protective guarding increases fascial tension and non-pitting edema forms when fluid becomes trapped in thickened interstitium. Traditional lymph work is essential, but fascia must also be addressed for complete restoration. A gentle fascial approach honors the lymphatic system's delicacy while creating the space it needs to travel.

This is not breaking tradition. This completes the picture.

Some may challenge this perspective, but the body does not argue. It responds. It softens. It drains. It heals. Thousands of therapists have seen swelling reduce, pain decrease, and mobility return when these systems are treated together. Because fascia and lymph are not separate entities. They are partners; two halves of one healing intelligence.

To work the fascia is to prepare the riverbed. To work the lymph is to free the river. Together, they create a landscape where healing becomes possible again.

For the bodyworkers who feel this truth in your hands, keep listening. The body is always teaching us how interconnected it really is.

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04/22/2025

From one of my articles published 10 years ago by InTouch magazine....
I still stand by today ❣️

04/04/2025

12/31/2024

Blessings of 2025❣️