The 'M' Effect

The 'M' Effect Holistic Menopause Coach helping you feel your best as you navigate your way through menopause and beyond.

Ever taken something in the name of ‘getting lean’ and the outcome had you running to the bathroom and/or having to chan...
04/23/2026

Ever taken something in the name of ‘getting lean’ and the outcome had you running to the bathroom and/or having to change your pantaloons IYKYK….read on, I promise you don’t want to miss this one…..

If you grew up in the 80s and 90’s, you probably remember the Magic 8 Ball.

You’d shake it, ask a very serious life question, like “Should I say yes to the boy who just asked me out?” and wait for your answer to magically appear.

Fast forward to today, and not much has changed… except now the “Magic 8 Ball” is Google, social media, and quick-fix solutions promising to solve our symptoms overnight.

Feeling tired? Take this.
Hormones off? Try that.
Not sleeping? Here’s the answer.

And to be clear, there are some great products and knowledgeable people out there. But there’s also a lot of noise. And a lot of it is directed at women who are simply trying to feel better in their own bodies.

The amount of money I’ve spent over the years on quick fixes? It makes me cringe a little (actually, a lot) There’s been moments of frustration, exhaustion, and yes… vulnerability… where clicking “add to cart” felt like the easiest answer. Especially when it was someone I “knew” online sharing her success, telling me she took X or did X and now feels incredible.

But what often isn’t shared is the full picture; changes to nutrition, medical support, therapy, coaching and consistency behind the scenes.

And when that one thing doesn’t “work,” it can leave you feeling discouraged… and reaching for the next solution.

Ask me about the pills I took years ago…that literally made you sh*t your pants. A few of us girlfriends tried them together; calling each other and laughing (crying inside) about actually sh*tting our pants…..”soya, soya sh*t your pants did ya”, was said over and over as we laughed and changed our pants! FUN!

Lasting change comes from the basics:
Fueling your body consistently
Eating enough protein and fiber
Paying attention to how foods actually make you feel

And that’s exactly why your approach needs to be individualized.

You don’t need a magic answer.
You need the full picture.

No shaking required.

A year ago yesterday, I had a rhizotomy between my C4/C5 vertebrae, a procedure where the nerves that are being crushed ...
04/22/2026

A year ago yesterday, I had a rhizotomy between my C4/C5 vertebrae, a procedure where the nerves that are being crushed and causing pain are targeted and ‘burnt’ to reduce chronic pain signals.

There were days my back pain was so severe I needed help just to do something as basic as getting to the bathroom.

That was my reality.

Yesterday, I carried 105 lbs on a 5K ruck.

Same body. Different chapter.

And let me be clear, my long runs and heavy rucks are what I choose to do. They matter to me.

But your version of movement?
Your strength training, your walks, your workouts, that matters, and that is what you choose.

This has never been about comparison, with anyone!
It’s about showing up for your body, in a way that challenges and supports it.

Here’s what changed:
I stopped waiting to “feel ready” and started working with my body instead of against it.

I listened when it needed rest.
I pushed when it was capable of more.
And I stayed consistent with the unsexy basics - movement, strength, patience.

Your body is always adapting. The question is: to what?

Especially for women moving through perimenopause, menopause, and beyond - this matters even more.

Muscle becomes non-negotiable.
Strength becomes protection.
Movement becomes medicine.

We are not meant to shrink with age.
We are meant to build, maintain, and keep showing up.

Because the goal isn’t just to “be fit” right now, it’s to be capable for life.

To lift your groceries.
To travel.
To run, hike, carry, play, live.
To play with your grandchildren.
To go to the washroom unassisted.

Age is not the reason to slow down.
It’s the reason to double down on taking care of yourself.

Do the work now…so you can keep doing the things later.

Your body is listening. Make sure you’re giving it something worth adapting to.

PS it’s NEVER too late to start!

Nobody got fat from one meal.Nobody got fit from one workout.And yet, it’s so easy to feel like one “off” day means some...
04/20/2026

Nobody got fat from one meal.
Nobody got fit from one workout.

And yet, it’s so easy to feel like one “off” day means something bigger than it actually does.

But it doesn’t.

Progress isn’t built in perfection.
It’s built in consistency.

The people who reach their goals aren’t doing anything extreme day to day.
They’re just returning to the basics over and over again.

One walk.
One workout.
One meal.
One day at a time.

Simple. Repeated. Compounded.

We often want fitness to feel fast and obvious, but most of the real change happens quietly. In the workouts that feel “not enough.” In the meals that feel ordinary. In the days that don’t feel like progress at all.

And that’s actually how it works.

It’s small actions, stacked over time, that create big change.

Brick by brick.

There will be days where it feels like nothing is happening and those are usually the exact days that matter most.

Keep showing up in the simple ways. Keep coming back to what you know works.

Because over time, those bricks build something strong.

Menopause is going to happen, we aren’t going to change this, it’s not menopause we are going to shift its the experienc...
04/13/2026

Menopause is going to happen, we aren’t going to change this, it’s not menopause we are going to shift its the experience with menopause that we want to and can shift.

The Audacity…
Menopause didn’t announce itself with fireworks. It crept in. First, it was the sleep. Then the anxiety. Then the forgetting of words - words - .literally asked my husband how to spell ‘poll’…..I suggested ‘pole’ over and over. I was exhausted, foggy, irritable, and confused. So I did what we’re taught to do: I went to my doctor.

And you know what I was told?

“Maybe you’re just stressed.”
“It’s probably depression.”
“It’s just part of aging.”
And my personal favorite: “You’re too young for menopause.”

I started to speak up. First quietly - with friends, in whispers:
“Are you… going through this too?”
And the answer was always: Yes. But I thought I was the only one.

At its core, having a coaching helps women navigate the unknown - transition without feeling like you’re losing their minds, relationships, or favorite jeans.
My coaching blends:
•Nutrition (because wine isn’t a food group - sadly)

•Strength training (does not have to include 2 hours in the gym combined with a obscene amount of burpees, unless you’re into that)

•Mindset support (a.k.a. not screaming into a pillow every day)

•And emotional coaching for the existential question: “Who even am I anymore, and why am I crying over this dog food commercial?”

If you are nodding in agreement, saying me to 🙋🏻‍♀️, this is a conversation I’d be happy to have with you! ❤️

04/12/2026

It’s FuN Friday! What are you choosing?

04/07/2026

Menopause research is… let’s just say, not exactly topping the funding charts. Which means a lot of women are out here navigating this phase with outdated advice and a whole lot of guesswork.

And I am living it, so I get it.

The shifts, the changes… the moments where you feel a little like, “who even is this version of me?”

But here’s what we do know:
❌Your body didn’t suddenly decide to betray you
❌ You’re still very capable of building strength
❌ Nutrition still matters and your body still responds to it

So if things feel harder, it’s not because you’re failing…it’s because you’ve likely been handed the wrong playbook.

That whole “eat less, move more, add more cardio, cut everything out” approach?

Yeah… not it.

In fact, in perimenopause and beyond, it can make things worse.

The shift most women actually need: You probably need more, not less.

More protein
More strength training (and yes, that means lifting heavier)
More food to properly support your body

Because with estrogen dropping, your body is already working against your muscle, you don’t need to pile on more stress.

You’re not broken.
You’re not losing yourself.
You’re just being asked to do this phase differently.

And once that clicks?

Things start to feel a whole lot more like you again.

Imagine the propaganda it took for a woman to focus on this……and not the fact that our bodies are strong, resilient, cap...
04/03/2026

Imagine the propaganda it took for a woman to focus on this……and not the fact that our bodies are strong, resilient, capable not to mention grow humans - two for me.

It’s wild how much conditioning it takes for a woman to focus on what’s “wrong” with her body… even in moments where she’s doing something truly incredible.

This day, surrounded with family, friends, the ocean, the sun and so much laughter.

When I first looked at this picture, I caught myself thinking, “I work so hard… why don’t I have a leaner stomach?” “Look at my saddle bags!”

Completely brushing past the truth - look at this moment shared between two friends - 40 years of friendship! The smiles, the actual moments and the laughter trumps judging my body EVERY. TIME. The fact that she was telling me I food in my teeth 😂 is beside the point.

Quietly remembering that the initial thought I have, isn’t the truth!!

That voice doesn’t just appear out of nowhere.

It’s learned.

And unlearning it? That takes intention. That takes practice.

Will my first instinct or reaction, when I see a picture of myself always be judging? I don’t know, maybe, maybe not! BUT what I do know is that I won’t believe that story, I don’t believe that lie anymore!




04/02/2026

Bad habits are tricky because you don’t feel the impact right away… and that’s exactly what makes them so easy to ignore. But over time, those small daily choices; poor nutrition, not moving your body, lack of sleep, constant stress — start to add up. What feels “normal” can slowly turn into low energy, brain fog, fatigue, and bigger health concerns down the road.

And during menopause, this all becomes even more important. Your body is already going through hormonal shifts, so things like poor sleep, high stress, and inconsistent nutrition can hit harder. You might notice more stubborn weight gain, energy crashes, mood swings, or feeling like your body just isn’t responding the way it used to, and a lot of that can be amplified by daily habits.

Things like relying on processed foods, sitting too much, or running on empty with little sleep can affect everything from your metabolism to your immune system. Add in things like smoking or too much alcohol, and it puts even more strain on your body. And stress alone? Huge. It can disrupt hormones even further, increase inflammation, and leave you feeling anxious and burnt out. Hear this, it’s rarely one big thing, it’s the repetition of those small habits over time.

The flip side is powerful though… it works both ways. Small, positive habits add up too. When you start prioritizing sleep, moving your body consistently, eating more balanced meals, and managing stress, especially through menopause your body responds. You can support your hormones, improve your energy, and feel strong and in control again. And the end goal, to be able to continue doing all the things, even if it scares you! This jump, I remember it being way higher than this looks 😉 WAY higher, scary, but the end goal was accomplished!

Hi 👋🏻 I’m Jennifer — your go-to for nutrition, strength, and real-life menopause support (with zero nonsense and a whole...
04/01/2026

Hi 👋🏻 I’m Jennifer — your go-to for nutrition, strength, and real-life menopause support (with zero nonsense and a whole lot of heart).

For 16 years, I’ve been coaching women both in-person and online. What an absolute privilege it has been working with all of these incredible women who just want to feel strong, energized, and like themselves again.

Here’s the deal…
I’m not about extremes, quick fixes, or “start over Monday” energy. I tried that for years, promise - it didn’t work.

I’m about balance, a boatload of self-love, and practical, sustainable habits that actually fit your life.

Because what we’re building?
It’s not just for today, it’s so you can always do the things. 💪🏻

Also… behind the scenes, I’m married to a very handsome man 😉 and lucky mom to two beautiful grown daughters who keep me grounded (and humble).

My passion for this work? It hasn’t wavered since day one. Not even a little. It’s only grown.

If you’re ready to feel strong, supported, and done with the all-or-nothing cycle… you’re in the right place 🤍

Love you, mean it 🧡




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