02/18/2026
We all have barriers and limitations to fitness.
We WANT to be strong. We WANT to show up as an athlete. We WANT to be a capable partner for our horse.
But WANTING is not enough. So many things come into play to challenge us in the process of getting strong.
Kids, time, work, willpower, equipment access, lack of enjoyment.
But strength and fitness is also a choice.
Yes, barriers exist. And yes, they are valid. But making the active CHOICE to train and BE strong; for most of us in the equestrian world, thatās possible.
Training and fitness is HARD, no matter who you are. And even those of us in the most privileged positions still experience barriers. But, if we get curious enough, almost every barrier has a solution.
So, instead of telling yourself you canāt train because of XYZ, what if, instead, we got curious, and asked āwhat if?ā.
What if I start with once per week?
What if I bring some resistance bands to the barn?
What if I train first thing in the morning before the kids get up?
What if I try going to the gym consistently for a month and see if I grow to like it?
What if Iām just starting too hard, and thatās why I hate it?
Yes, there is an element of privilege when it comes to training - but for the vast majority of us, especially in the equestrian world, we often DO have the capacity, if we get curious about our barriers - weāre just failing to prioritize it.
If you donāt have time, start with less. If you donāt enjoy it, bring a friend or make it a game. If you donāt have equipment, start with a cheap set of resistance bands. If you struggle with willpower, book it into your schedule or make a habit of tagging workouts onto rides.
If we start getting curious, we can start finding solutions. And when we start finding solutions, we start building habits. And when we start building habits, we start seeing results, building more motivation and continuing the cycle.