05/24/2022
IS WHAT YOU BELIEVE TRUE? USE THESE 6 QUESTIONS TO FIND OUT!
Let’s try a thought experiment. Think of a belief, any belief, that you think is true. Maybe you believe psychic mediums can talk to the dead, or that immigrants bring crime to the country… or that Tom Brady is the best quarterback of all time. It might be easier to start with a belief that is less important to you, but it’s your choice.
Next, use the following exercise to evaluate your belief.
Our beliefs impact our actions and decisions, yet we often don’t think to question why we believe. More often than not, we simply believe what others around us believe, or what we’ve been told. We just assume it’s true. (Our brains are lazy and gullible.)
Once a belief is formed, we use confirmation bias to search for and favor supporting information. Maybe we’ve heard a vivid or emotional story. It’s possible we even have a personal experience of our own. After all, the best way of knowing something is to have seen or experienced it ourselves, right?!?!
Actually, no: Our personal experiences can be wildly misleading. Trusting them to tell us the “truth” is an excellent way to be misled.
That doesn’t stop us from being confident, though. After all, we have “facts” and “evidence” on our side! And it sure “feels” like we know our belief is true. Those who disagree are letting their emotions get in the way of being logical. (See: Any comment section on social media!)
So how would we go about figuring out if the belief is true? Evidence, of course! The trick, though, isn’t to search for evidence that supports our belief, but to look for evidence that would prove it false. If you can’t think of a way to disprove the belief, it’s untestable, and “evidence” is meaningless. It might be true, but we’ll never know for sure. But assuming the belief is testable, put on your scientist hat and actively search to prove it wrong.
The point is that evidence matters. But we’re after quality evidence, not anecdotes, unreliable “news” sites, memes, social media groups, or cherry-picked “experts.”
It’s also useful to get into the habit of proportioning our beliefs to the evidence… meaning we can be more confident a belief is true the more evidence we have, and vice versa. Overconfidence is often based on an illusion of knowledge, and it can prevent us from learning or changing our mind. Reality is complex. Embrace the shades of gray and avoid black-or-white thinking.
Learning to be skeptical of our beliefs is a difficult but essential skill. And we have to be open to changing our mind if the evidence suggests we should. It may feel like a principled stand to cling to false beliefs, or to demand impossible standards of evidence before changing your mind, but that’s the definition of denial. Just know that your inability to change your mind doesn’t make you right. And there can be serious consequences to being wrong…false beliefs can quite literally cause harm.
One more thing: Do you want to believe in things that are true, and not believe in things that aren’t? Even if it’s uncomfortable?
I’ve asked countless students this question, and they always respond with a resounding chorus of, “Of course!” But as the semester progresses, and they’re faced with questioning long-standing and identity-defining beliefs, they’re not so sure. Emotional attachment to beliefs can prevent us from accepting reality.
The bottom line is that it’s essential to get into the habit of questioning what we believe. Healthy skepticism, or demanding evidence before accepting a belief, and being open to changing our mind, is empowering. It protects us against being fooled… by others, or by ourselves.
LEARN MORE: thinkingispower.com/the-power-of-questioning-our-beliefs/
