11/20/2025
4 observations that changed my life:
1. Forgiveness is never for them, but for us. It’s not for their absolution but for our peace.
2. You can’t keep waiting on someone’s apology as a permission slip to move on. Self-closure exists.
3. If you can’t forgive yourself, you will never grow as an individual. Resentment is a prison with an open door.
4. When you’re hoping for a better future, but it’s not happening in your present, it’s because of dead weight from the past that you’re still carrying.
We’re often unable to move on not because we don’t want to, but because we simply don’t know how to or where to start:
It’s simply not enough to say “I want to let go of the past” or “I am letting go of what no longer serves me.”
Don’t get me wrong, it begins with the desire to want to let go. But desire and affirmations alone don’t take you that far.
It requires practices to shift this at the subconscious and energetic level.
Because that “dead weight” doesn’t exist in reason & logic (as much as we would want it to be).
I only know because I’ve tried. I was aware of everything that was weighing down on me. Too self-aware, actually: I could recite the origin and cause of my affliction by heart. But it would take me years of trial & error (and so much money spent on courses & books) before coming across the most successful tools that really brought my desires to my present.
That’s why I felt the desire to create and host HOMECOMING, a gathering where I will be guiding those who know they’re meant for more but are being weighed down by the misfortunes of the past.
We go live this Saturday & Sunday, Nov 22 & 23rd @ 11AM EST
✅ Learn more about this experience: https://www.jovannyvarela.com/homecoming
With lots of love,
Jovanny Ferreyra
Artwork by artwork by instagram.com/christineowensart
