03/09/2026
I woke up this morning in a bit of a haze. I woke up to my alarm clock instead of waking up before, which I often do. Despite going to bed early, I still woke up feeling more tired and thinking today needs to be gentle-- a bit of a recovery day. It made me think of those who were in a birth high. Then night 2 hits and wow, the demands of the new baby waking to feed often-- maybe feels constant, it's a lot. You feed, you drift to sleep and then are awoken by this new life. Is this normal? Is my body working right? Night 2 throws a person. You are already so vulnerable. Your hormones are hormoning. You are all the emotions. Your body hurts. Your baby demands a level of you, you never had to give before. And you may be concerned because yesterday was much more chill.
Steps to support you through Night 2:
1) Breastfeed your baby often and keep them close
2)Your baby needs your constant comfort and wants to be with you, preferably skin to skin
3) Baby is fussy and that's normal. Repeat steps 1 and 2
4) Rest and recover
Knowing that this happens before your baby is born can be reassuring for a new parent. Not knowing can cause alarm 🚨and perhaps really throw off breastfeeding. Doubts may creep in and with that, unnecessary formula.
Why is cluster feeding good?
- It support your milk production
- Supports infant nutrition
- It helps baby and you practice breastfeeding
- It helps keep baby close for safety
- Supports bonding and attachment
- Support maternal recovery and infant health
⭐Please share this with a soon to be parent.
How to support a new parent:
- Bring them food
- Reassure them and validate their experience
- Share evidence based breastfeeding resources with them, not a pump or formula. Remind them of the breastfeeding supports available
- Let them recover and ease into their new role as parents