01/25/2026
Save this for when part of you wants to cross the finish line.
When a trauma therapist says “we can go as fast as you can go slow” it’s because shifting the nervous system out of urgency is the whole point! ❤️🩹
If complex trauma means the system has learned that you are in a perpetual state of emergency, then healing is allowing the body to realize and relax into safety.
And since our brains and bodies are wired to survive, we remain on high alert - by design! Shifting out of urgency and survival mode… takes conscious effort, consistency, and time 🌱