04/17/2026
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✨A message about childhood abuse and spiritual truth ✨
I get this question a lot during my sessions, and I want to be very clear about it.
From what I have learned directly through different guides and through accessing the Akashic Records, karma is not balanced during early childhood. I’ve been shown very clearly that karmic balancing can only happen when the body and nervous system are developed enough for the soul to consciously process, integrate, and understand what is happening.
A child does not yet have that capacity.
That is why childhood abuse is never chosen by the soul and it is not a karmic lesson for the child!
A child does not have the emotional or mental ability to understand what is happening to them, let alone “agree” to such an experience on a soul level !
Abuse is a violation of innocence !
It is something that happens to a child, not something a child creates, attracts, or deserves.
Saying that a child chose abuse or needed it for karma is deeply harmful and completely wrong.
It was also explained to me very clearly that a soul who later becomes an abuser does not plan or choose to abuse a child before incarnation.
These acts arise from free will, fragmentation, unconsciousness, and unresolved distortions ,not from pre-birth agreements or soul contracts involving harm to a child.
What can happen is that after an experience has already occurred, the soul may later work with it, heal it, and transform it into wisdom or growth.
But this is very different from choosing or agreeing to the trauma ahead of time.
The Guides are very clear about this distinction, especially because calling childhood abuse “chosen karma” places responsibility on the soul who was harmed ,and that is something they strongly correct.
Spiritual growth does not require trauma.
Pain may lead to healing later in life, but that does not mean the pain was meant to happen.
And this is especially important to say about starseeds:
Starseeds do not come here with unbalanced karma from Earth !
They have never incarnated here before ( not counting research lives because those lives are not full incarnations) .
They come to assist, to anchor light, and to help raise consciousness , not to “pay off” karmic debts.
Starseeds are not welcome here. From the moment they are born, they are often targeted by dark entities. This frequently happens through other people, family members or authority figures, who inflict emotional, mental, and even physical harm.
The level of pressure and trauma can be so intense that it deeply damages the child, sometimes to the point where the person feels like leaving this planet entirely.
So if anyone tells you that your abuse was planned, that you “needed it” spiritually, or that you carry heavy karma because of it ,that is not the truth.
That is a misunderstanding of spirituality and a misuse of spiritual language that excuses harm.
Real spirituality stands with:
✨ innocence
✨ compassion
✨ protection of children
✨ truth
✨ healing
Abuse is not a lesson !
It is something that must be stopped, healed, and never spiritually justified.
If you carry wounds from childhood, they do not mean you are broken.
They mean you survived.
And your healing is your power.🩵