Family The-ra-pie

Family The-ra-pie We offer counseling as well as life/health/nutrition coaching to children, teens, and adults. Our sp

November ReflectionNovember arrives as a gentle invitation.The pace slows, the air cools, and life begins to whisper for...
11/01/2025

November Reflection

November arrives as a gentle invitation.
The pace slows, the air cools, and life begins to whisper for rest and reflection.

This is a natural time to pause and check in with yourself before the year closes.
What emotions are still asking to be felt?
What experiences have shaped your growth?
And what needs your care as you move toward a new season?

You don’t need to have everything figured out.
Sometimes, healing looks like small pauses, quiet awareness, and allowing yourself to simply be.

Let this month be a moment of calm before the world speeds up again.
Make space for warmth, connection, and self-compassion.

🕯️ Take a breath. Reflect. Reset.
You still have time to end the year gently with presence and care.

10/30/2025

As October ends, many of us feel the shift.
The air gets colder, the days get shorter, and something inside begins to turn inward too.

This is the season of letting go.
Of slowing down.
Of noticing what no longer feels right to carry.

Healing often begins in quiet moments like this.
When you stop forcing yourself to move forward and allow yourself to simply be.

You are allowed to rest.
You are allowed to release what has run its course.

People-Pleasing and BurnoutPeople-pleasing often starts as a way to keep the peace, but over time it can lead to quiet s...
10/28/2025

People-Pleasing and Burnout

People-pleasing often starts as a way to keep the peace, but over time it can lead to quiet self-abandonment. When you say yes to avoid tension, your own needs begin to disappear. The cost is usually your energy, your clarity, and your sense of self.

This week, practice choosing yourself gently. Even one small boundary can be an act of healing.

You are allowed to matter in your own life.

10/18/2025

Saturday Q&A: How CBT Helps with Anxiety

Q: What actually happens in the brain and body when I feel anxious?
Anxiety is your body’s natural alarm system. When your brain perceives a threat, whether it is real or imagined, it activates the fight, flight, or freeze response. Your heart rate increases, muscles tense, and your thoughts start to race as your body prepares to protect you.
The problem is that this system can become overactive, responding to everyday stressors as if they were emergencies. That is when anxiety starts to interfere with daily life.

Q: How does Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) help?
CBT is one of the most effective, research-based treatments for anxiety. It helps you identify how your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are connected. Many people with anxiety experience automatic negative thoughts which are quick, often unrealistic thoughts that trigger fear or worry.
In CBT, you learn to:
• Recognize these thought patterns
• Evaluate whether they are accurate or helpful
• Replace them with balanced, realistic perspectives

This process reduces the emotional intensity of anxious moments and teaches your brain new, calmer responses.

Q: What skills do clients typically learn in CBT for anxiety?
CBT is highly practical. You will learn tools you can use right away, such as:
• Grounding and breathing techniques to calm physical symptoms
• Cognitive restructuring to challenge anxious thinking
• Exposure exercises to face fears safely and gradually
• Behavioral activation to re-engage with meaningful activities

Over time, these skills retrain the brain to respond to stress in healthier, more balanced ways.

Q: What can I expect from therapy sessions focused on anxiety?
Together, we create a supportive environment to explore what fuels your anxiety. We set small, realistic goals and track your progress between sessions. My role is to guide you with evidence-based strategies and compassionate reflection, helping you move from constant worry to a steadier sense of control and peace.

As a therapist, I’m reminded every year that gratitude is not just a feeling. It’s a practice.It’s noticing what still b...
10/13/2025

As a therapist, I’m reminded every year that gratitude is not just a feeling. It’s a practice.

It’s noticing what still brings warmth when life feels heavy.
It’s choosing to pause and name what’s good, even when our minds focus on what’s missing.
It’s allowing ourselves to receive support, love, and rest without guilt.

This Thanksgiving, may you slow down long enough to feel the small moments that make life meaningful, a shared meal, a quiet breath, a safe person to talk to, or the simple knowing that healing is possible.

Gratitude is not about pretending everything is okay.
It’s about remembering that even in the hardest seasons, something within us is still growing.

Happy Canadian Thanksgiving 🍁

🕊️ What’s one small thing you’re grateful for today?

10/10/2025

Mental Health Week, Let’s Name the Real Wins

Healing doesn’t always look like big breakthroughs.
Sometimes, it’s:

✔️ Answering a text you’ve been avoiding
✔️ Getting through a hard day without shutting down
✔️ Saying “no” without apologizing
✔️ Letting yourself rest without guilt

These quiet wins matter.
They’re proof you’re learning to live from care instead of survival.

This week isn’t about pretending everything’s fine.
It’s about honoring the strength it takes to keep showing up messy, tender, growing.

You don’t have to do it alone.
Therapy is a place where your wins, big and small, are celebrated.

If this post speaks to you, you’re not alone.
Let’s keep talking about what healing really looks like.

10/09/2025

Your body isn’t broken.
It’s just stuck in survival mode.

And when your stress response stays on high too long, it starts to feel normal until you can’t shut it off.

You know the signs:
• Racing thoughts at 2am
• Shoulders that never drop
• Wired all day, wiped out by night

Pushing through doesn’t calm your system.
It keeps it running on fumes.

What actually works are micro-resets: quick, gentle ways to bring your body back to safety right in the middle of chaos.

Try these:

1) 4-7-8 Breath
Inhale for 4, hold for 7, exhale for 8.
Instant signal to your nervous system: you’re safe.

2) Cold Water Wrist Reset
Run cold water over your wrists.
It cools the body and slows the heart rate fast.

3) 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding
Name 5 things you see, 4 you can touch, 3 you hear, 2 you smell, 1 you taste.
My clients (and kids!) love this one — it shifts you back to calm in seconds.

4) Shoulder Release
Lift your shoulders toward your ears, hold for 5 seconds, then drop.
Notice the melt.

5) Reset Phrase
Say softly, “Let me gather my thoughts.”
It creates space before reaction.

6) Feet Grounding
Press both feet into the floor.
Feel the stability beneath you.

7) Heart Coherence
Hand on your heart, breathe with your pulse.
It brings your system back into rhythm.

8 ) Progressive Muscle Release
Tense everything, then let it all go.
Full-body reset in moments.

9) Box Breathing
In for 4, hold for 4, out for 4, hold for 4.
Steady and strong. This is used by Navy SEALs for calm under pressure.

10) Energy Check
Ask yourself, “Where’s my energy on a scale of 1–10?”
Pause and recharge before you crash.

Each one takes less than a minute.
Each one brings you back to center.

Practice when life feels calm so your body remembers when it doesn’t.

If you could only keep one, which reset would you choose?

Mental Health Matters
10/08/2025

Mental Health Matters

Healing and grieving often walk hand in hand. Grief is not something you get over. It is something you learn to live wit...
10/08/2025

Healing and grieving often walk hand in hand. Grief is not something you get over. It is something you learn to live with, something that reshapes how you see the world and yourself.

Healing does not erase the pain. It helps you make meaning from it. It allows you to breathe again, to laugh without guilt, to carry love forward instead of loss alone.

Some days will feel heavy. Others will surprise you with lightness. Both are part of the process.

You are not broken for still feeling it. You are human for learning to hold both sorrow and hope in the same heart.

This one moment changed everything.A client once said, “I am surrounded by people, yet I feel completely alone.”Loneline...
10/05/2025

This one moment changed everything.

A client once said, “I am surrounded by people, yet I feel completely alone.”

Loneliness is not always about being physically isolated. It is about feeling unseen and unheard, even in the middle of a full life.

The shift begins when we stop asking, “What is wrong with me?” and start asking, “Where have I stopped feeling safe to reach out?”

At Family The-ra-pie, I help people rebuild emotional safety within themselves and in their relationships, so connection feels possible again.

If you have been feeling invisible, send a message that says “Connect.” You are not meant to do this alone.

The week has been full. Before you step into the weekend, pause. Breathe. Notice how far you have come in just five days...
10/04/2025

The week has been full. Before you step into the weekend, pause. Breathe. Notice how far you have come in just five days. Self care begins with awareness. What do you need most right now? Rest, connection, or space? Give yourself permission to choose it.

Release Tension with Progressive Relaxation1) Find a quiet spaceSit or lie down in a comfortable position where you won’...
10/01/2025

Release Tension with Progressive Relaxation

1) Find a quiet space
Sit or lie down in a comfortable position where you won’t be disturbed.

2) Take a few deep breaths
Inhale slowly through your nose, hold for a moment, and exhale gently through your mouth.

3) Work through your muscle groups
Starting from your feet and moving upward, tense each muscle group for about 5–10 seconds, then release and notice the difference between tension and relaxation.
- Feet & toes: Curl your toes tightly, then release.
- Calves: Flex your feet upward, hold, then relax.
- Thighs: Squeeze your thighs together, then release.
- Stomach: Tighten your abdominal muscles, then let go.
- Hands: Clench your fists, then relax.
- Arms: Bend your elbows and tense your biceps, then release.
- Shoulders: Shrug them up toward your ears, then drop them down.
- Neck: Gently tilt your head back (without straining), then relax.
- Face: Scrunch your facial muscles (eyes, mouth, forehead), then release.

4) Finish with deep breathing
Take a few slow, calming breaths and notice how your body feels lighter and more relaxed.

Tips:

Practice PMR daily for best results.
Pair it with calming music or guided audio for deeper relaxation.
If you have any injuries or pain, skip those muscle groups.

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Montreal, QC

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Tuesday 10am - 7pm
Wednesday 8:30am - 4pm
Thursday 10am - 8pm
Friday 10am - 8pm
Saturday 12am - 6pm

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