Susan Lazar Hart Coaching

02/01/2026

Last week we talked about abandonment. This week, the truth gets harder.

The person you've abandoned most is yourself.

Every ignored instinct. Every silenced desire. Every time you chose "safe" over true.

You taught yourself you can't be trusted.

But here's what I know: the same way you learned NOT to trust yourself, you can learn to trust yourself again.

Not through thinking. Through practice.

Watch this week's video. Then tell me: what's one way you've abandoned yourself lately?

Not to shame yourself. To see yourself clearly.

Because you can't come home to someone you're pretending isn't lost.

Video link in the comments

01/31/2026

Last week, we talked about abandonment —
the ways people have left you,
the ways trust was broken,
and how that shaped the way you move through the world.

Tomorrow, we go deeper.

Tomorrow’s video is about the abandonment we don’t talk about enough —
self-abandonment.
The moments you ignored your gut, chose safe over true, and slowly stopped trusting yourself.

📺 New video drops tomorrow at 8:00 AM.

If you’ve been second-guessing yourself, people-pleasing, or feeling disconnected from your own voice…
this one matters.

✨ Make sure you’re subscribed to my YouTube channel.
Link in the comments.

01/29/2026

Waiting can feel safe—until it quietly starts costing you your self-trust.
In this short reflection, we explore why waiting often feels easier than choosing, how indecision disconnects you from your inner clarity, and why struggling to choose doesn’t mean you’re weak—it means you’re paying attention.

If you’ve been second-guessing yourself, feeling stuck, or looking outside yourself for answers you once knew, this message is for you. Choosing yourself isn’t about certainty—it’s about rebuilding trust with your own heart.

This is the deeper work behind Choosing You—and a space to practice it is opening very soon.

✨ Is now the time to start choosing you?

01/27/2026

01/27/2026

If you haven’t watched my latest video yet, this is for you.

We’re talking about self-trust for women, emotional burnout, and midlife awakening—and the subtle signs that show up when women abandon themselves quietly.

🎥 Full reflection on my channel
👇 Link in the comments

01/27/2026

If you haven’t watched my latest video yet, this is for you.

We’re talking about self-trust for women, emotional burnout, and midlife awakening—and the subtle signs that show up when women abandon themselves quietly.

🎥 Full reflection on my channel
👇 Link in the comments

01/26/2026

Not sure how to start your week?

Begin with awareness—not fixing, not forcing.

This week’s Fearless Sunday Reflection explores the quiet ways women stop choosing themselves—through exhaustion that rest doesn’t fix, resentment we judge ourselves for, and the slow loss of self-trust.

If something feels off, nothing is broken.
Something is asking for your attention.

🎥 Watch now on my YouTube channel
👉 Subscribe & watch — link in the comments

01/25/2026

This week’s Fearless Sunday Reflections is about self-trust, emotional burnout, and the quiet way women stop choosing themselves—especially in midlife.

🎥 Video is out now on my channel

Most women don’t wake up one day and decide to stop choosing themselves.It happens slowly. Quietly. Over time.In this video, we talk about the subtle ways wo...

01/24/2026

Most women don’t realize they’ve stopped choosing themselves…
until exhaustion, resentment, or self-doubt shows up quietly.

This isn’t burnout.
It’s misalignment.

In my latest YouTube video, I share the 3 subtle shifts women experience when they abandon themselves without knowing it—and why nothing is actually wrong with you.

✨ Watch the full conversation on YouTube
👉 Subscribe to my channel — link in the comments

01/22/2026

If you have been feeling restless,
If you have been putting something off,
Or just waiting to trust yoursefl,

Today is the day.

If you’re ready to stop circling the same questions, join me today for Your New Year Alignment, a live 90-minute experience.

Link in the comments