Oka Baby

12/09/2024

It can be really tricky to know what to buy the baby in your life for their first Christmas. But it’s really important to avoid dangerous sleep products.

Sleep bags like these may look very cosy and inviting but many sold online have been recalled as they present a serious risk of suffocation, overheating and death.

Sleep bags should be well fitted, (think neck and arm holes that fit well) so that your baby can’t wriggle down inside. And avoid any sleep bags with hoods or head coverings.

Learn more: https://capt.org.uk/watch-out-for-dangerous-baby-products-when-shopping-online/

05/03/2024

“…their current setup, where they both tried to fight sleep to feed their son anywhere but lying down in bed, was likely the most dangerous of all.”

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/there-are-safer-ways-to-bed-share-with-a-baby/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR3P1A4nIq_oQOU1Mu7KOzmgzMBGrmWPIImktUqpcEOI_AVk6wIupw9T0wQ_aem_ARcDKXP6lS2TFxJXheubwUyfcxQwKFDEbET0l0kUVm__QwHGeN3_llTBKUh1564NyAlUO6fRuCJnwgxYAMPWT2k7

For some parents, bed-sharing is the only way their baby can sleep. Rather than talking to parents about how to do it safely, we try to pretend it doesn’t exist

12/16/2022

I was lucky enough to join Chanelle Walsh on her Podcast Luggage and Little Ones. Have a listen as I speak about travelling standby with a toddler, as well as some sleep and travel tips for those with babies and toddlers.

‎Show Luggage and Little Ones - The Podcast, Ep Episode 5: UK, flying tips & baby sleep with Steph de Graaf from Oka Baby - Dec 15, 2022

12/07/2022

Although it's one of the most exciting and busy times of year, it may fill you with dread thinking about how your baby will sleep when staying away from home, how you're going to manage naps when you're on the go, and what the disruption might do to your little one's routine.

After watching this webinar, you'll come away with the confidence to get your little one's sleep back on track, as well as some handy tips and tricks for travel, managing an over-stimulated baby, and much more.

This event will be hosted live in my Facebook community Real Baby and Toddler Sleep.
Join here:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/238154887503712/?ref=share&mibextid=S66gvF

08/23/2022

I have to credit one of the Oka Mamas for this one after we were having a little rant to each other about how quickly people are willing to suggest sleep training in Mum groups on Facebook. We had both seen the same post where a mum literally wrote “cry it out is not an option for us” and STILL people were suggesting cry it out and Ferber in the comments 🤦🏻‍♀️ There was also a lot of talk about holding boundaries, but in the context of “otherwise your baby will manipulate you.” Unfortunately, this kind of misinformation about babies being able to manipulate us persists, despite an ever growing body of knowledge that babies do not have the cognitive maturity to manipulate an adult.

This comes days after a relatively big/well known account posted a very, very misleading post about feeding on a schedule vs feeding on demand. There were thousands of comments on the post from professionals stating that the information was wrong and the poster was irresponsible in spreading this rubbish. Many of us also reported the post, but it has not been removed.

Meanwhile, members of the BIPOC community are being silenced and shadow banned, female ni***es are censored (which in turn limits the normalise breastfeeding movement), and large accounts with money behind them continue to spread dangerous, false information.

Vulnerable parents are being lead to believe they are doing something wrong when they respond to their babies every need. Whether it’s supporting sleep or responsive feeding, parents everywhere are questioning if they are doing the right thing. This has to stop.

If you see or hear information shared on social media that doesn’t sit right with you, you have every right to question it. Who posted this? What qualifications do they have? Where is the science to back it up?

When it comes to engaging in discussion on Facebook groups, I’m all for respectful, diverse perspectives. But when someone states they DO NOT want to do something (ie sleep train), don’t offer that up as your advice 🤪

I want to credit for inspiring some of the content in this caption as well as for the quote in the picture.

08/22/2022

Three mums share the reality of parenting after stillbirth or miscarriage.

08/02/2022

There will be a lot of noise on social media this week with people up in arms about what World Breastfeeding Week means, how it can trigger people, shame people, and generally make people feel bad. But it is not about the individual. It is about raising awareness in our whole society, our governments, and our healthcare systems.

Breastfeeding Week is not only about celebrating breast/chestfeeding but more importantly recognising the barriers to breast/chestfeeding and coming together to raise awareness and, as a society, take action to protect breast/chestfeeding for those who want to do it.

It is NOT about shaming those who CHOOSE to formula feed, or trying to persuade them otherwise. It is about creating an environment conducive to achieving the breast/chestfeeding goals of those who do CHOOSE to breast/chestfeed.

In an ideal world, we wouldn’t need a Breastfeeding Week - those who want to do it would have access to the resources they need to achieve their breast/chestfeeding goals. We wouldn’t need to raise awareness because breast/chestfeeding would be recognised as a basic human right for anyone that wants to do it - the normal, biological baseline.