Ilex Counselling

Ilex Counselling Meet Erica Markus-Pawliuk and Priscilla Healey

https://ilexcounselling.ca Meet Erica Markus-Pawliuk and Priscilla Healey. https://ilexcounselling.ca

With a combined wealth of experience and diverse therapeutic approaches, they offer a unique and comprehensive perspective on clinical practice. Erica and Priscilla are both Registered Clinical Counselors with BCACC. They have extensive experience working with individuals, children, couples and families. In addition to their practical experience, they also have experience as instructors at UVic's Schools of Child Youth Care and have an in-depth understanding of family systems and navigating complex family dynamics. While both Erica and Priscilla see clients of all ages. Erica's main focus is youth, adults, and couples. Priscilla's main focus is children, youth, and families. Please take a look at our website to book an appointment.

Your body runs on an internal clock, your circadian rhythm. It’s a 24-hour cycle that regulates sleep, hormones, mood, d...
02/28/2026

Your body runs on an internal clock, your circadian rhythm. It’s a 24-hour cycle that regulates sleep, hormones, mood, digestion, focus, and even how resilient you feel to stress.

From a therapeutic perspective, sleep isn’t just “rest.”
It’s regulation.

When you go to bed and wake up at consistent times, you’re telling your nervous system:
You’re safe. There is rhythm. There is predictability.

And the nervous system loves predictability.

🧠 During sleep:

Your brain processes emotional experiences.

Stress hormones reset.

Memory consolidates.

Your body repairs and restores.

When sleep is irregular, your system can stay in low-grade survival mode, more reactive, more anxious, more overwhelmed.

🌤 Waking up at a consistent time (even more than a perfect bedtime) anchors your circadian rhythm. Morning light signals your brain to regulate cortisol naturally, helping energy, mood, and focus stabilize throughout the day.

From a therapeutic lens, healthy sleep-wake cycles support:

Emotional regulation

Reduced anxiety & irritability

Improved impulse control

Stronger stress tolerance

Clearer thinking

This isn’t about perfection. It’s about rhythm.

Small shifts matter:
✨ Consistent wake-up time
✨ Morning light exposure
✨ Gentle wind-down routine
✨ Reduced late-night stimulation

Healing isn’t only what happens in sessions.
It also happens in the quiet commitment to rest.

Your body keeps the score — but it also keeps the rhythm. 🌙

Our qualified counsellors offer in person services in Penticton and Summerland, or virtual services across the province....
02/27/2026

Our qualified counsellors offer in person services in Penticton and Summerland, or virtual services across the province.

For more specific information on our counsellors see our website www.ilexcounselling.ca

Or send us an email: ilexcounselling@gmail.com

For many women, this stage can bring unexpected feelings: anxiety, low mood, irritability, loss of confidence, grief aro...
02/25/2026

For many women, this stage can bring unexpected feelings: anxiety, low mood, irritability, loss of confidence, grief around ageing or fertility, changes in identity, and shifts in relationships. You don’t have to navigate it alone.

✨ How counselling can help during menopause:

🌿 Emotional support
A safe, non-judgmental space to talk openly about what you’re experiencing — without being told to “just get on with it.”

🧠 Managing anxiety & low mood
Hormonal changes can affect how you feel day to day. Counselling helps you understand triggers, build coping tools, and regain emotional balance.

💬 Relationship changes
Menopause can impact intimacy, communication, and family dynamics. Therapy supports healthier conversations and boundaries.

🌸 Rebuilding confidence & identity
This can be a powerful time of rediscovery. Counselling helps you reconnect with who you are beyond roles and expectations.

🔥 Coping with physical symptoms
While therapy doesn’t replace medical care, it can help you manage the stress of symptoms like sleep disruption, brain fog, and mood swings.

Menopause isn’t the end of something, it can be the beginning of a new, empowered chapter. Support makes a difference.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or not quite yourself, counselling could be a gentle and effective next step.
Contact ILEXcounselling.ca


Slow Saturday vibes ✨Weekends are a gentle reminder that rest is productive too. Slowing down, savoring your coffee, get...
02/21/2026

Slow Saturday vibes ✨

Weekends are a gentle reminder that rest is productive too. Slowing down, savoring your coffee, getting outside (even in this weather) , laughing with someone you love — these aren’t “extras.” They’re nervous system care.

Let today be less about catching up and more about tuning in. What does your body need? What would feel nourishing right now? 💛

You’re not alone,  and it’s not because you don’t love each other.You’re likely stuck in a pattern.As a Gottman-trained ...
02/18/2026

You’re not alone, and it’s not because you don’t love each other.
You’re likely stuck in a pattern.

As a Gottman-trained therapist, I use research-based tools to help couples:
• Break unhealthy communication cycles
• Manage conflict more effectively
• Rebuild trust and emotional connection

You don’t have to keep replaying the same argument.
Let’s create a new pattern — together.

✨ I offer a free 15-minute consultation to see if we’re the right fit.

Book your session with Erica Markus-Pawliuk
www.ILEXcounselling.ca
e.markus-pawliuk@shaw.ca

Priscilla Healey is a Registered Clinical Counsellor with BCACC. She has a BA (Honours) in Psychology from UBC, and a Master of Arts in Child and Youth Care (Counselling Focus) from UVic. She has been working with children, individuals, and families for over a decade. BCACC RCC  #19592.

02/18/2026
Ilex Counselling is a small Okanagan Practice with trained therapists that offer in-person and virtual counselling servi...
02/17/2026

Ilex Counselling is a small Okanagan Practice with trained therapists that offer in-person and virtual counselling services for:
*Individuals
*Couples
*Family
*Children

We also offer low cost counselling with our Master’s Level Practicum Intern.

Start your journey today: www.ilexcounselling.ca

02/17/2026

Ilex counselling is a small practice, of trained professionals each woth with over a decade or of experience. We provide services. If your looking counselling for:
*Individual
*Couples
*Family
*Children

Low cost services are also available with our Masters Level Practicum Intern.

www.counselling.ca

www.ilexcounselling.caFamily Day looks different for everyone.For many, it’s a time to gather, laugh, and appreciate the...
02/16/2026

www.ilexcounselling.ca
Family Day looks different for everyone.
For many, it’s a time to gather, laugh, and appreciate the people who mean the most. For others — especially in light of recent tragedy — today may feel heavy, complicated, or painful. And that’s okay. There is no “right” way to feel.
If this day is hard for you or your family, please know you’re not alone. Support is available through Ilex Counselling. Reaching out is a sign of strength, and care is here when you need it.
Holding space for joy, grief, love, and healing — all at once. 🤍

Valentine’s Day is about love in every form — romantic, platonic, family, self-love, and everything in between.Whether y...
02/15/2026

Valentine’s Day is about love in every form — romantic, platonic, family, self-love, and everything in between.
Whether you’re single, in a relationship, raising little ones, part of a non-traditional partnership, healing, or simply living your best life — your love is valid and worth celebrating.
Rooted in the story of Saint Valentine, today has grown into something bigger: a reminder that love belongs to everyone. 💗

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