01/24/2026
This has been on my mind recently with the consistent posts written and shared by a trainer which has been making waves.
He 100% has some valid points that are true in every way. The issue I’m having with this are. He accompanies every post with a picture of him on the back of a horse honking, while he pulls on both reins, or one hand on his night latch and the other lifting on the halter, all while most the horses are wearing the biggest fattest softest halters, which gives the horse something to lean on with zero thought on giving to the pressure, nor not a whole lot of effort on his part to disengage the hind end to put a stop to the “show”. More like teaching them to resist and lean to pressure. Which he preaches is very important and key, 100% true, but why not practise what you preach?
He carries on to say c**t starting is the most important part to a horse’s future, also true. If it’s so important then why would you offer getting on anything and everything with a guarantee walk, trot, lope in the first session? Yet preaches more so on how anything less than a 30 day start does nothing. How exactly is offering one ride starts following his statement regarding giving a solid foundation? That in no way will give a good experience to the horse you only just met, no time to prep it for a successful first ride and experience. It offers a very rushed session that more than likely be a negative anxiety ridden experience for the horse, some horses will react different to his approach so this isn’t valid across every horse. Some people may love his style. Each to their own. Be prepared for a future full of resistance and reactivity.
It’s more a “look at me” attitude for willingly riding a Bronc. No education or establishing a foundation what so ever. The whole mentality of some people saying “sometimes you just gotta get on and get it done”, is bu****it. If that’s what you feel needs to be done on young horses then you have no right to be working young horses.
If the horse is showing insecurity and lack of confidence then step back and build the confidence up, get their body parts softer and their mind on the task. The feet are connected to the brain, fast feet, fast brain. Slow it all down! Your success rate will be far better and the horse will be in a much better mind set. Slow is smooth, smooth is fast.
I don’t know this trainer personally, from what I’m reading/watching on the posts of his clinics to what he preaches don’t match up.
It’s an accident waiting to happen. Throw pride to the wayside and be humble and put the horse first not your ego.
I’ve made that mistake fairly recently. I haven’t been going to clients properties to put rides on horses for the past couple years since most times things have been missed and I don’t have the time to build a connection with the horse to increase the chance of success.
However, I made an acceptation on this occasion since it was a longtime friend’s client horse, and they were fresh off an injury so I wanted to lend a hand. I worked the horse on the ground a bit and it was decent enough but not where I would like it to be prior to climbing on, since it was very stiff and resistant on the right side. This horse had a history of bolting primarily when you pick up on the right rein.
Well, I didn’t stick to my program and say, I’ll come back and work at getting the horse to what I expect before climbing on, if it wouldn’t improve I’d suggest that the owner should get rads done to check for any issues in the neck and back causing discomfort on the right.
Instead, I wound up getting yet another concussion that has been the longest one to heal from.
What should I have done? I should not have let my old self take over and have my pride over step my decision’s. I should have stepped back and stuck to my program and established a better connection with the horse and build its confidence before climbing on, to eliminate the percentage of what the outcome ultimately was.
What does that have to do with everything above?
Rushing things with horses is the unknown, sometimes they can take it, sometimes they crumble. But, it’s guaranteed to not give the horse a fighting chance at being successful and having a relaxed confidence inspired experience. What this trainer preaches and what he shares, contradicts what he practices.
To end this rant off, don’t preach what you don’t practise, put the horse’s experience first especially when c**t starting. You are the one carving out its future for success. You owe it to the horse to not be prideful, stay humble, listen to the horse, learn from them. At the end of the day they are the one ultimately paying the price for your pride and ego influencing your training. Horses have the biggest heart and they try their ass off for your own hobby. Don’t take the chance of breaking their big, soft hearts we all love. You can try and heal it over time but the damage is done and will always remain a memory for them.
When it comes to sending your horse to be started, think about what future you have your heart set on with your horse, choose a trainer that aligns with your goals.
Remember, no matter the discipline, dressage, jumping, roping, reining, cutting, etc. they all share the exact foundation. Without a solid one your future goals will be more challenging to reach with more frustrations and lows, than one of a horse that had a foundation built from humble origins.
- Jared Phye