09/23/2023
Do groups with other parents and their kids give you anxiety? 🙋🏾♀️ ✅ I am used to training big groups, and working with athletes and their families but when it comes to being a parent participating with my son & other parents…
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I avoid birthday parties and parks like the plague (grateful Kyrie’s dad is very active with bringing him to parks and birthday parties). It’s something I’m working on, but I’m not there yet 🙏🏾
Kyrie's first day of the basketball program. It was scary for Kyrie and me at first. I always dread people comparing Kyrie to other kids, asking about his speech, and judging his shyness, and my awkwardness/antisocial habits. Sweating buckets from stress as I walked through the doors of the gym with Kyrie- being the parent instead of the coach is such a change. I was so anxious I considered turning around. Kyrie grabbed my hand tight and I had a flashback *where I brought Kyrie to a soccer practice where the coach was not patient with Kyrie and made me not even want to bring Kyrie back ever again. *
I nervously walked up to the Apex Basketball Coach and introduced myself and Kyrie (this alone was HUGE for me). The coach was so kind and understanding of Kyrie's initial shyness. The coach got on Kyrie's level to get to know him. He was so patient and gave off really good energy. As shy as Kyrie was at first I could tell he was going to open up and enjoy this program. No questions about Kyrie's speech. No comparing him to other kids. Just good energy, meeting my son exactly where he’s at ♥️🙏🏾🥰✅ (hallelujah).
Kyrie's cousins showed up and he was so happy (so was I). We made it past the intros and Kyrie wanted time out to express that he wanted to just do his own thing on the sidelines. His uncle (also very patient/understanding of Kyrie) practiced with him on the side and Kyrie was having fun once again. Practicing dribbling, passing, shooting, listening- great lessons with great staff for kids with different strengths and abilities.
I’m glad Kyrie and I were able to face our fears and I look forward to watching him grow within this program 🙏🏾 🏀