Spiritual Splashes

02/09/2026

MONDAY 9th FEBRUARY 2026

You can’t keep asking so much of yourself if your cup is full of crap.

Watch what you’re feeding yourself with.
Food. People. Screens. Noise.

Your body keeps the receipts.
Maybe it’s time you start to choose YOU.

02/05/2026

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When asked why I no longer speak to a certain person, I gave a brief explanation.

The response was, “Why don’t you be the bigger person and reach out to discuss the issue?” And that question alone says a lot about how misunderstood boundaries really are. People often believe that being the bigger person means constantly reopening wounds, revisiting the same conversations, and offering endless access to people who have already shown you who they are. But growth teaches you something different. Sometimes, being the bigger person isn’t about chasing resolution—it’s about choosing yourself.

There comes a point where you realize that explaining yourself over and over doesn’t bring clarity, it brings exhaustion. You start to see patterns instead of potential. You notice that every attempt to “talk it out” leads back to the same hurt, the same dismissal, the same unresolved issues. At that stage, continuing to reach out isn’t mature or noble—it’s self-abandonment.

Letting go doesn’t mean you didn’t care. It doesn’t mean you’re immature, cold, or unwilling to communicate. It means you finally listened to what your peace was asking of you. Not every relationship is meant to be repaired. Some connections exist only to teach you what you will no longer tolerate.

Recognizing a toxic dynamic and choosing to walk away takes strength. It takes self-respect. Love and peace go hand in hand, and sometimes the most loving thing you can do—for both of you—is to love from a distance. Choosing peace is not weakness. It’s wisdom.

02/05/2026

I'm so in love with this quote: "You can never break a woman who finds beauty in everything, even in pain. She turns her scars into wisdom, her struggles into strength and her setback's into a comeback."

That quote speaks to the resilience of women, to the power of perspective. It's not about the pain, the hurt, or the struggle – it's about what we do with it. We can let it break us, or we can use it to fuel our growth. We can let it define us, or we can redefine it. This woman, she's not just surviving, she's thriving. She's taking the ashes of her past and turning them into beauty, into strength, into wisdom.

She's not ignoring her pain, she's facing it head-on, and she's coming out the other side. She's a phoenix, rising from the ashes, stronger and more radiant than ever. And that's what makes her unstoppable. She's not just a woman, she's a force of nature, and nothing can break her spirit. She's a masterpiece, a work in progress, and she's just getting started.

02/05/2026

This is beautiful

I checked his phone while he was asleep. And no, I didn't find anything. But instead of yelling at me for not trusting him, he asked himself, "What made her feel so unsafe in the first place?" So the next day, he showed up for me. My favorite snacks. And a simple message: "I'm sorry you ever felt unsafe. It's only you. It's always been you."

That's the kind of love that stops you in your tracks, that makes you realize maybe your insecurities aren't about them, but about your own fears. He didn't defend himself or make me feel guilty for invading his privacy; he met me where I was, in my insecurity. He chose to understand, to comfort, to reassure. That's when I knew I was seen, truly seen, in all my messy, anxious glory. It's a feeling like no other, knowing someone chooses you, flaws and all, and shows up for you, every time. It's a love that heals, that teaches you to trust again. And it's a reminder that sometimes, the most profound acts of love are the ones that meet us in our darkest moments, not the grand gestures.

02/05/2026

Not all girls want fancy things. Take me fishing, sit around a bonfire, a late night drive, dancing in front of the headlights, listening to 90s country songs on full blast while watching the sunset. The things I love are free.

That's the stuff real memories are made of, isn't it? The simple things, the ones that don't cost a dime, but are priceless in the moment. It's about the laughter, the company, the feeling of being alive. Who needs expensive dinners and overpriced concerts when you've got a lake, a guitar, and a sunset? The best things in life aren't things, they're moments, and you're creating them with the people you love. Keep doing you, and surround yourself with people who love the same simple, wild, and free things. Life's too short for anything else.

02/01/2026

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02/01/2026

Love this sm