Ending Abuse Media

Ending Abuse Media Using media to expose the crime of DV, sharing vital resources, & encouraging family peace. Every woman deserves a life free from fear.

Alison Soroka is the Founder and Executive Director of Smiles and Laughter Entertainment/Ending Abuse Media which was established in March 2011 and is an innovative media organization with the goal to increase awareness and knowledge about domestic violence. We also assist the public in identifying and accessing the resources available to victims and their families. Smiles and Laughter Entertainment/Ending Abuse Media aims to stimulate action by sharing stories, providing referrals, connecting critical resources, assisting in how to identify the risk factors of domestic violence, and displaying where victims can go for help. We are aligned with the City of Surrey's goal to "improve public awareness around the reality and perception of crime." Alison’s vision, "to leverage media to expose the crime of domestic violence, share vital resources, and encourage family peace," came from a combination of her experience in the film industry and being a thankful survivor of domestic violence. Being well-versed on the dynamics of this crime after having fled an abusive living situation (nearly losing her daughter's life and her own in the process) and also knowledgeable of media options, Alison is able to apply media as a primary tool of focus, using video, radio, print, and internet to reach the largest audiences. It is through this avenue that she seeks to promote the organization's motto of "Together We Can Break the Cycle of Abuse." As a mother of three children and a human welfare advocate, Alison passionately wants to contribute to "breaking the cycle of abuse" while making communities safer, more informed, and prouder places to live. She is disciplined and committed to assisting in the eradication of domestic violence. She believes this is possible as long as we, as a society, unite with strong, active, unified, and persistent voices to expose and ultimately annihilate this cowardly act and crime. There are no communities that are immune; therefore, making it all that much more important for us to reach the largest of audiences and inspire every one of use to do our part. Our future generations deserve the opportunity to enjoy a childhood filled with peace and innocence; not pain, suffering, or emotional trauma. Every child deserves to grow up knowing no threat of violence in their home. When we as a society can say that we feel safe and loved, then we know our work is done. Why we chose Smiles and Laughter Entertainment as our organization's name? Because this is the aftermath of what can be if we work together in providing love, support, and assistance to victims of domestic violence. If you believe in this vision, or even if you are just willing to consider it, please support Smiles and Laughter Entertainment/Ending Abuse Media in whatever way possible so we can work together towards our common goal.

01/01/2026

Our wish for you in 2026 is simple: Happiness.

Because when you lead with happiness, anything is possible. 💫

Wishing our entire community a year of peace, love, and new beginnings. 🤍

Happy New Year! ✨

12/30/2025

“I’m a killer.”

That is exactly what a partner says the moment they put their hands around your neck.

Research shows that non-fatal strangulation—even just once—increases a victim’s risk of later being murdered by their partner by more than sevenfold.

This isn’t just “losing control;” it is a rehearsal for homicide.

The numbers don’t lie: Nearly half of all women killed by intimate partners had previously survived an act of strangulation by that same partner.

Whether it’s choking or neck pressure—joking or not—it is never harmless. If it happens, it is a lethal red flag. 🚩

Take it seriously. Document it. Get help.

How to Document (Safely)
• Seek Medical Attention: Go to the ER immediately. Ask for a “strangulation exam.” Internal damage (to the throat or brain) may not show symptoms for days.
• Photographs: Take photos of your neck, face, and eyes (look for tiny red spots called petechiae) over the next 3 days. Marks often appear later.
• Write It Down: Record the date, what was said, and any symptoms (sore throat, difficulty swallowing, or voice changes).
• Safety First: Keep these records in a “hidden” app, with a trusted friend, or at your doctor’s office—never on a shared device or where an abuser can find them.

If this has happened to you, the danger level has changed. Please reach out for a safety plan.

You deserve to be safe.

You don’t have to do this alone.

Reach out to us or a local advocate today. Check out our Ending Abuse Media website link in bio 💜 or contact National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE (7233).







12/25/2025

This Christmas, may we remember that love is the greatest gift of all.

✨Merry Christmas from Ending Abuse Media.




✨ Season’s Greetings from Ending Abuse Media ✨As we approach the end of another year, I want to take a moment to express...
12/23/2025

✨ Season’s Greetings from Ending Abuse Media ✨

As we approach the end of another year, I want to take a moment to express my sincere gratitude to our supporters, partners, advocates, and community.

The holidays are often portrayed as a joyful time — yet for many, especially those impacted by domestic violence, this season can be incredibly complex and painful. At Ending Abuse Media, our mission remains clear: to use media, education, and awareness to expose the realities of abuse, elevate survivor voices, and support prevention efforts that lead to safer families and communities.

I am deeply thankful for everyone who continues to stand with us in this work — whether through advocacy, collaboration, or simply helping to keep these conversations visible.

Wishing you a peaceful holiday season, and hope for a safer, more compassionate year ahead.

With gratitude,
Alison Soroka
Founder & Executive Director
Ending Abuse Media🎄✨




12/20/2025

As the year winds down, we’re reminded that the holidays aren’t easy for everyone — especially those affected by domestic violence.

Thank you for helping us amplify voices, share resources, and remind both victims and survivors that they are not forgotten.

🎄 Holiday Hours
Closed December 25
Closed December 26

We’ll be back shortly, continuing the work of awareness and change. Until then, be gentle with yourself and with one another. 🤍






12/20/2025

The festive season is upon us.

Please be kind to one another.

You never know what someone is carrying behind a smile.

The holidays can be incredibly difficult for many — especially for victims of domestic violence.

Abuse often intensifies during this time of year, when financial pressure, alcohol, stress, and isolation increase.

For those trying to leave, this period can be terrifying and life-threatening.

The risk of harassment, stalking, and even homicide rises significantly after separation — by as much as 75%. Leaving is not the end of the danger; for many, it is the most dangerous time.

And even for those who have escaped and are rebuilding their lives, the abuse often continues in quieter, more insidious ways — through post-separation abuse, coercive control, legal harassment, and intimidation.

So if someone seems withdrawn, anxious, or “not themselves” this season — pause before judging.

Offer kindness before assumptions.

Listen without trying to fix.

Believe survivors when they speak.

Your compassion could be the safest place someone has this holiday season. ❤️





And

10/19/2025

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

💞 When two souls meet that are meant to be, everything just clicks.

This quote reminds us that love — real love — should feel peaceful, safe, and effortless. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and support. They don’t leave you walking on eggshells, drained, or afraid.

In contrast, abusive relationships are marked by control, manipulation, and fear — the opposite of harmony. If love feels like a constant battle, that’s not love. You deserve a connection where you feel safe, valued, and free to be yourself without having to fight for it.

💖 To anyone living in fear or confusion right now: you are not alone. The courage it takes to survive and seek safety is immense, and your life has immeasurable worth. Healing is possible, and there is hope for peace, freedom, and love that doesn’t hurt.

🔗 Visit www.EndingAbuseMedia.com for resources, support, and ways to help end domestic violence.









🚨 When survivors of intimate partner violence find the courage to leave, their risk of being attacked or killed skyrocke...
09/12/2025

🚨 When survivors of intimate partner violence find the courage to leave, their risk of being attacked or killed skyrockets by 75%. This is the most dangerous time — and it’s exactly when the system too often lets abusers walk free on bail.

🔐 BC Attorney General Niki Sharma is calling for stricter bail laws, including reverse-onus provisions. That means the accused abuser must prove why they deserve release — instead of survivors being forced to live in fear while waiting for justice.

📌 No more ‘catch and release’. It’s time to put survivor safety first.












💜 To the child in you that carries shame that was never yours to carry.We want you to hear this clearly: the shame, guil...
09/12/2025

💜 To the child in you that carries shame that was never yours to carry.

We want you to hear this clearly: the shame, guilt, or self-doubt you’ve been carrying is not yours to carry. What was done to you—the manipulation, the lies, the attempts to turn you against those who love you—was never your fault.

The confusion, anxiety, depression, or distrust you feel now are natural responses to what you’ve been through. It’s okay to feel lost, and it’s okay to feel hurt. These feelings are proof of your strength, not your weakness.

You are more than the pain you’ve experienced. You are still whole at your core—the part of you that is worthy, capable of love, and deserving of safety. Healing is possible, even if it takes time, and you don’t have to face it alone. There are people, resources, and communities that can help you reclaim your life, your choices, and your joy.

The child inside you—the part that was never at fault—still exists, still deserves to be heard, loved, and protected. You have the right to trust, to feel safe, and to build a life that is free from the lies and control that were forced upon you.






















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