11/09/2025
I recently worked with someone who has gone through relationship traumas in the past. The recent breakup has shaken his self-confidence and trust in others. He is alienating himself from everyone, trying to cope using alcohol every night after work. However, his intense pain and inner wisdom also guided him to choose me, a trauma therapist, and take time out from his busy life to work with me.
What I learned/observed is that no matter how deep and loud your wounded self is, you know what went wrong and how to change that. The problem is, you got stuck in “Why Me?” and “How?!" This is making you lose trust in yourself and others. Trust is the glue of all relationships. Without trust, every relationship is formal and just functional, which is neither authentic nor a natural way of living life.
If this resonates with you, ask yourself - what is needed to be released from me so that I can screen, attract, create and maintain relationships of my choice who are a mirror image of REAL ME.