10/20/2025
As a woman who’s been on my own healing journey for over a decade, who guides other women through personal transformation every day,
Here’s what I’ve noticed:
Most women who are on a healing journey don’t actually need more healing
As you read that, you might be thinking “well, what DO I NEED THEN?!”
And I want to invite you into a conversation that asks us to flip the conversation of healing upside down for a moment
Many women who are chronically over-functioning in their lives turn to healing & spirituality
You are an over-achiever
You’re used to holding it all together for your family and community
Your trauma is connected to attuning to others before you attune to self
An adaptive behaviour for a highly sensitive person who existed in an environment where you sensed energetic disharmony
You have a pattern of over-functioning to bring external, and therefore internal harmony
An addiction to healing can become just another way that over-functioning response plays out
The perfectionism in academic or external settings is replaced with an impossible standard of spiritual perfection
The relationship with the divine gets twisted into a reward / punishment dynamic
Where you believe that if you just GET IT RIGHT, you will reap the spiritual rewards of the effort put in
Where rescuer and over-giving tendencies turn into space holding & healing others
And at the root of it all, you become more & more depleted by this exhausting search for perfection
Then the cycle repeats, as you seek for deeper roots of imbalance to send you on yet another spiral of “healing” in the name of somehow, finally, getting it all right
You don’t need healing so much as you need acceptance
Because underneath the high functioning burnout and fatigue
Is a girl searching for love and acceptance
Who thinks she has to earn love (even from creator) to be worthy
You need spaces where you can unfurl
Be seen in your imperfections
Howl your grief and grievances
Be held instead of always holding
Let go of the obsession with fixing
And see yourself as whole
I know, because I am you
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