Inner Counsel Therapy

Inner Counsel Therapy Support for understanding thoughts, emotions, and behaviours without self-criticism.

Drawing on diverse therapeutic approaches in high-pressure professional settings, creating space to untangle mental noise, reconnect with what matters, and find clarity. Stefan Jürgens, RP (Qualifying), is the founder of Inner Counsel Psychotherapy and a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying). After nearly 20 years as a law librarian—where he navigated complex legal issues and the human stories behind them—he now supports adults navigating anxiety, perfectionism, and life transitions with clarity and compassion. Stefan blends analytical precision with deep empathy, drawing on evidence-based approaches including CBT, DBT, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Narrative Therapy. He holds Master’s degrees in Counselling Psychology (MACP) and Library & Information Science (MLIS).

Winter mental health can bring lower energy and a pull inward. A thoughtful reflection on seasonal slowing, self-compass...
01/22/2026

Winter mental health can bring lower energy and a pull inward. A thoughtful reflection on seasonal slowing, self-compassion, and practical ways to care for yourself through winter.

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Winter is not asking us to perform. It’s asking us to adjust.

That quiet, relentless inner voice can shape how you see yourself and the world. Explore how inner critics form, why the...
01/20/2026

That quiet, relentless inner voice can shape how you see yourself and the world. Explore how inner critics form, why they persist, and how therapy can help you relate to them with more choice, compassion, and steadiness.

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Not fixing what's broken, but discovering what becomes possible when you meet yourself with understanding instead of force.

Most New Year's resolutions fail by mid-February. Not because you lack discipline—but because self-criticism kills motiv...
01/05/2026

Most New Year's resolutions fail by mid-February. Not because you lack discipline—but because self-criticism kills motivation.

The alternative? Self-compassion. It's not about lowering standards. It's about responding to setbacks with curiosity instead of shame.

If your resolutions already feel heavy, there's a kinder way forward.



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Change doesn’t begin with pressure. It begins with emotional safety.

Wondering why progress feels slow in therapy? This post explains how regular sessions help build trust, deepen insight, ...
12/15/2025

Wondering why progress feels slow in therapy? This post explains how regular sessions help build trust, deepen insight, and create lasting change. Learn simple strategies to stay engaged between appointments and make the most of every session.

Ready to feel more supported and grounded? Book a free 15-minute consultation to get started.

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Therapy becomes a steady anchor, a place to return each week and check in with yourself.

Holiday stress can add up fast. If the season feels overwhelming or exhausting, you’re not alone. My latest post explore...
12/07/2025

Holiday stress can add up fast. If the season feels overwhelming or exhausting, you’re not alone. My latest post explores why holiday burnout happens—and how small moments of care can make a meaningful difference.

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The holidays do not need to be perfect. They only need to feel like yours | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Our inner voice shapes how we feel, make decisions, and move through the world. In this post, I explore simple, mindful ...
12/07/2025

Our inner voice shapes how we feel, make decisions, and move through the world. In this post, I explore simple, mindful self-talk strategies that can help reduce anxiety, strengthen self-compassion, and support personal growth. If you’ve ever felt held back by a harsh inner critic, this is a gentle place to begin noticing — and shifting — that inner language.

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The language we use shapes how we interpret the world. Adding "yet" to thoughts like "I haven't reached my goals yet" shifts from self-criticism to possibility. Replace "I can't handle this" with "This feels hard, but I can take one step at a time." Speak to yourself with the same respect you'd offe...

Learn why focusing on personal growth restores energy, creativity and balance, helping you thrive in work, relationships...
10/26/2025

Learn why focusing on personal growth restores energy, creativity and balance, helping you thrive in work, relationships, and life | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy



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I worked late, checked emails over dinner, and took pride in always being available. From the outside it looked like commitment. In reality, I was drained. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Thanksgiving can be joyful and stressful. Learn mindful ways to stay grounded, present, and connected through it all | I...
10/25/2025

Thanksgiving can be joyful and stressful. Learn mindful ways to stay grounded, present, and connected through it all | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy



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No table is perfect. Real connection begins when we stop expecting it to be | Inner Counsel Therapy

Struggling with digital brain fog? Discover mindful strategies to regain focus, reduce stress, and rebuild emotional bal...
10/24/2025

Struggling with digital brain fog? Discover mindful strategies to regain focus, reduce stress, and rebuild emotional balance in today’s tech-driven world | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy



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Digital brain fog can leave us distracted, anxious, and drained. Mindfulness, self-compassion, and simple tech boundaries help restore focus, emotional balance, and meaningful connection in daily life. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Learn to cope with unfair treatment by naming emotions, pausing before reacting, and protecting your peace to move forwa...
10/22/2025

Learn to cope with unfair treatment by naming emotions, pausing before reacting, and protecting your peace to move forward with clarity and confidence | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy



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Moving forward is about choosing compassion, shifting focus, and allowing humour to lighten life’s weight. Healing begins with connection and grows through trust in the life waiting ahead. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

This post explores how to cope with unfair treatment by naming emotions, pausing before reacting, and protecting your pe...
10/21/2025

This post explores how to cope with unfair treatment by naming emotions, pausing before reacting, and protecting your peace, helping you stay grounded and move forward with clarity and self-respect | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy



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Learn to cope with unfair treatment by naming emotions, pausing before reacting, and protecting your peace to move forward with clarity and confidence.

Your inner story shapes your life. Discover how to shift negative self-talk and reclaim your confidence. Lea...
10/20/2025

Your inner story shapes your life. Discover how to shift negative self-talk and reclaim your confidence.



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Your inner story shapes your life. Discover how to shift negative self-talk and reclaim your confidence.

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