Emma Lokai, Toronto, ON (2026)

04/08/2023

Something that needs to be addressed that isn’t spoken about enough (IMO 💅🏽)

When I was just starting out I used to coach for free ALL OF THE TIME, in the DMs.

And then I’d wonder why nobody was buying my programs/buying my 1:1’s 🤪🫠🫣

Here’s the thing, when you’re just starting out in biz, I truly believe the money shouldn’t even be the focus.

It should be BUILDING A HOT AUDIENCE WHICH MEANS A MASSIVE AMOUNT OF TRUST BETWEEN YOU & THEM! ⚡️💣💎

But coaching in the DMs is NOT how you do this.

💎Free masterclasses are an option.

💎Bonus/add ons to offers you already have, is an option.

💎Adding a question box on your stories is an option (to keep it short & sweet & to the point)

But coaching within the DMs… noooooo.

This creates no space between you & the client; no reason for the client to buy anything you have to offer.

You might as well just give all of your services away for free.

Keep your boundaries TIGHT & make it so YOU create what’s free & what’s not free. (Like the examples I gave you above)

This way, you’re still leading, you’re still guiding… but not over exerting yourself + undervaluing your services.

Thank me later babe 😈😏👅

04/07/2023

I can tell you right now, it isn’t them.

It’s YOU. 🫠😈🙃

And I say that with MAD love.

If you can take a hot second & actually USE your reality as a mirror to what you’re currently believing (this is a HUGE code - you’re welcome 😈)…

You can actually experience a massive leap within your biz.

Most people just think it’s everything externally that’s causing their inconsistency or their lack of success. And I just don’t believe that.

I’m a BIG believer in personal power & embodiment.

If you’re consistently complaining about how “nothings ever working for you” or that “no one ever buys your offers”..

Then that’s what you’re going to continuously experience.

Radical responsibility means that you take ownership of WHO YOU’RE BEING & hone in on all the leaky s**t that’s disrupting your energy.

That’s some bad bitch s**t 😈💎⚡️

04/06/2023

This one may sting but also could be the best wake up call of your life⚡️

E M B O D I M E N T

What does it actually mean?!

Simple.

Everything you believe, aligns with everything you do.

YOU ARE LITERALLY A WALKING TALKING BRAND.

There isn’t room for “I’m a coach for today but tomorrow I’ll go back to a completely different way of being”

Nah.

That’s not the realm that I play in, because I understand that I AM THE BRAND.

I AM THE STRATEGY.

And if I’m saying one thing, but do another, it’s energetically felt within my biz.

I truly believe the reason behind the success that I have is because I am who I say I am, I do what I say I do & who I am offline is the EXACT same as who I am online.

It doesn’t differ.

I don’t wobble.

And if there is a place that I feel out of integrity with, it gets my full focus.

Integrity isn’t an option in my biz.

Its apart of everything I do.

and that is why I can charge what I charge, do what I do, and say what I say with the CLEANEST energy behind it.

Embodiment baby.

It’s next level s**t 💎💎💎💎

04/05/2023

You wanna work with a Coach? Get inside their inbox & make it happen😈⚡️🪄

I BET as soon as you do this, you will be blown away at what that Coach can offer you.

Don’t just wait for an invitation, step inside their inbox, tell them you want to work with them & ask how you can make that happen.

THIS IS MASSIVE LEADERSHIP TYPE S**T. 💣💣💣

The frequency of not waiting to *see* if something will happen, and actually MAKING it happen yourself.

This is how I’ve built my biz - f**k this is how I run my life.

I want something? Cool. I don’t walk, I RUN towards it.

And most of the time, there’s a way to make what you desire happen.

The only thing that’s standing in the way is you taking 5 months to think about it.

Just. Move. ⚡️

04/05/2023

Remind yourself who the f*ck you are the next time your mind wants to take you on a rollercoaster of emotional immaturity.

We don’t lose our minds because nobody bought after two days of launching.

We don’t lose our trust in our brand when nobody saves our latest insta post.

We don’t compare ourselves to somebody who’s on a completely different journey than us/has been doing the same thing WAY longer than we have.

We don’t constantly check whether or not s**t is working & freak out because we don’t see the physical evidence yet.

We don’t burn our biz to the ground just because a client asked for a refund.

We don’t do that s**t anymore.

It’s not the vibe.

It’s not the frequency.

You want to hold MORE?

You want to attract POWER?

Then babe, you can’t keep moving in & out of who you’re being; you can’t keep wobbling inside of your business.

You are WOMAN.

And my god babe, you have more power than you know.

04/03/2023

Sometimes the strategy has nothing to do with the strategy. (Let me explain ⚡️)

I used to think that there was some secret strategy to biz/crazy success.

And yes there IS strategy, BUT:

- there isn’t just ONE strategy out there
- Whatever you choose to do, it’s actually a pretty f**king simple strategy

But of course, we’re sucked into fearful messaging that strategy is some secret magic that only a few people know about.

And because of that, we lead ourselves to believe that we need something OUTSIDE of ourselves to make our biz flourish.

I used to be stuck here, too.

And it was so awful.

Until I woke up.

I realized the strategy (though some logical things included) was f**king ME.

My way of thinking.

My way of being.

How I hold myself.

How I move.

The way that I talk & simplify everything.

My f**king weird ass humour.

My love for motivational speaking.

THIS WAS ALWAYS ENOUGH.

But because I was consistently searching for answers outside of myself, my biz was stagnant.

People could feel my doubt, my fear, my lack of belief.

I was leaning into basic b*tch territory.

I was toning down the things that made me so incredibly authentic; the things that were actually going to EXPLODE my biz.

^^^^ Until I stopped.

I finally gave into everything that came so easily for me; the things that I genuinely LOVED to speak on.

The things that turned me the f**k on to share about.

And in stepped my Bad B*tch Branding 😈👅⚡️

The strategy was always me.

03/31/2023

How much space do you allow yourself to take up in the Coaching industry?😈💎⚡️

Because let me tell you something.

People flock to vulnerability.

They are DRAWN to it.

They will pay thousands to be near somebody who speaks their f**king truth & stands by what they say.

They will pay thousands to be lead by somebody who can hold themselves in their power.

Because that energy is one that can move mountains & one that isn’t always easily found.

Don’t underestimate what you have to say.

There are clients waiting for you just SAY THE DAMN THING. 💎💎💎

03/30/2023

You’re WELCOME 💎😈⚡️💣

I was sitting with myself thinking, like yes I could just post about the basic “this is how you can make more sales” but honestly?

The reason why a lot of sales don’t happen, is because theres a lot of deep s**t going on behind the scenes.

What I mean by that is yes branding, posting, content, etc is SO VERY IMPORTANT… but who you’re being WHILE you’re creating these things, is the MOST important.

Because it’s all an extension of YOU.

So if you’re feeling really s**t about yourself every other day, it’s going to seep into everything you do in your biz. (Including SALES)

It’s the realization that if you’re feeling shakey within yourself, you’ll definitely won’t be the anchor people want to buy from.

That’s why EMBODIMENT of what you do, is EVERYTHING.

It can’t be overlooked.

It can’t be forgotten.

You’ve gotta be the same person off the screen as you are ON.

You’ve got to be so intertwined with what you preach & what you practice or your biz won’t ever be in a FLOW STATE for you.

I go deep with this s**t.

Firstly, because I love to.

And secondly, because I believe selling is actually easy.

It’s us who make it so damn hard.

03/29/2023

Someone had to say it 💎⚡️💣

Mute, block, delete.

Stay focused on what you’re here to do & realize people won’t always understand the way you move.

The only person who needs to understand it, is YOU.

03/28/2023

How much SPACE are you giving yourself to actually RECEIVE what you’re learning…? 🙈🪄⚡️

This is MASSIVE.

You can spend every second of the day plugging into masterminds, courses, podcasts, books, etc..

And WE LOVE THIS.

But when do you give yourself time to actually LAND IN what you’re soaking up?!

When do you actually take time to pause, reflect, and IMMERSE yourself in BEING.

This is f**king crucial.

And it’s a part a lot of people forget.

It’s not all about what you’re reading, it’s who you’re being after you read it.

WHO YOU BE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF GROWTH.

That’s why I purposely plug TIME TO PLAY into my week… so I can:

💎land in the frequencies I’m soaking up

💎f**king feel my body & what it’s telling me

💎create space to receive downloads from my highest good

💎take INTENTIONAL movement on what I’ve just learnt & actually practice EMBODYING it

Yeah space is a BIG deal.

You need it ⚡️😈💣💎

03/27/2023

Second post today cause I’ve got so much to f**king say 😈⚡️

(That rhymed 😜)

This post is special.

One: because I myself used to be in a VERY hyper masculine program & I felt very restricted & honestly?

Alone.

I tried everything to make it work.

I gave it my all (because I always do)

But getting out of bed in the morning felt heavy, because I knew my heart was somewhere else.

I knew my heart desired a different path.

I realized that I never needed to change my feminine ways.

All I needed to do, was LEARN HOW TO PROPERLY USE IT 💎

The feminine can be a wild fire if she doesn’t have clear boundaries & foundations (non negotiables baby)

And it was in that program that I thought, “I can’t be the only one feeling this”

Long story short, here I am.

I followed the pull. I followed the nudge.

And it brought me to my truest voice.

F**k.

And it feels so damn good.

Your feminine wants to seep into your every moment…

To give you pleasure, without a cause.

To give you so much more, without always taking action.

To lock you into the moment, without needing a reason to…

Find her. Be with her. Love HER.

03/27/2023

Straight up lol 😈⚡️💎😮‍💨

The one thing clients come to me for, is making the feminine TANGIBLE.

As in, feminine energetics is a very INTANGIBLE thing.

It’s a feeling.
It’s a way of life.
It’s how you move.
It’s how you hold yourself.
It’s the way you speak.

And that makes it hard for many women to run their biz in this way, because how do you take a WAY OF BEING & run a biz through it?

Well that’s where I come in 😈

Cause there is a way.

A way that still makes you feel so secure, grounded & safe (healthy masculine vibes 100%), but also SO flowy, in the moment & sensual AF

😮‍💨🦄⚡️

This is where I play.

And f**k, it makes biz so light & FUN.

I’ve got a few ways to work with me right now 💎💎💎

Close proximity (1:1) but also a way for you to tap into my mind 🤤

If biz feels heavy for you, I want you to know right now IT DOESNT HAVE TO BE baby!!!

You didn’t start your biz to f**king hate it.

Emma Lokai

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