16/09/2016
Tonight an old friend from high school, committed su***de. He was 41 and had two children. Regardless of why he killed himself, there is no doubt in my mind, that he felt so very alone. That he had no one to turn to for help, consult, advice or even a hug. Being alone isn't only a social feeling, it is also a mental feeling. Knowing your own worth, knowing your own value matters. It matters to me, Jared Palfrey. it matters to everyone else that loves you, and that you love.
When My parents divorced, I felt alone. When I was sexually abused for 3 years of my life, by a pe*****le, I felt alone. When My grandparents died, I felt alone. When my mother died, I finally. completely. felt alone.
Through many events, through many hard times, through many hugs, I made it through the darkest of times.
Where would I be in this life, If I didn't have so many people in my life that loved me enough to help. Without the Aunts, Uncles, Sisters, Brothers, Doctors, Psychiatrists, Police Officers, parents and friends, I know I would be a different person.
How different my life would be, if those "other people" didn't provide that relief and support.
I have not experienced as much as some of the people who are stronger than me but I can understand most forms of pain that others go through. The people that have decided to work with me on this free service have either learned or have known everything else. If you would like to be apart of this team, please message me for further details if you would like to become a 2nd Aider.
If someone you know, or someone you don't know, but you think could use an understanding ear, or text feedback, or help in any possible way, send them to this page, or have them text or call my cell number anytime, or any place they have access. I will talk with them, I will help them If I can. I will do whatever is required to get them to where they need to be with themselves. If that means a shoulder to cry on, if that means a patient ear, if that means calling an Uber to get them, if that means sitting with them while they cry themselves dry, that is what is offered. FREE. No strings. We are like Pinocchio over here.
When a child falls and hurts themselves, they go to the first aid. Where does that same child go, when it is their mind or heart or soul that is hurt? The Second Aid, will provide that service, at any time, at any place. Anonymity is available, no information requests are needed. No waivers or contracts are required. If you, or someone you know of could use someone to talk to, please send them here. I would love to talk to them and help in anyway, in whatever capacity that actually means.
This page is a service page, it is something I feel is important. The Second Aid is a place where people can go to not simply heal their body, but to get triage for their mind. To get help for any abuse, harm, tragedy, question, feeling, or confusion they are plagued by.
If you would like to join our team of 2nd Aiders or would like to be involved with this service please message using some form of the information below. For the time being, I'm providing my personal cell phone, and communication details. Until our team of 2nd Aiders are online and ready to help, you'll get me, Jared.
Be Well, Stay Strong, Someone is on their way to help.
Love Jared.
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