Death's Apprentice

02/20/2026

Comment DOULADO to get an invitation to register (and probably meet mocha too).

Last session is tomorrow, Feb 21 at 3 pm. It would be such a pleasure to have you there!

If you’ve been feeling a call, now is the time to answer it ❤️

Yes, I’ll send out a recording too.

But if you can get there live, you’ll enjoy it more: you can get your questions answered in real time!

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02/19/2026

Check my 🔗 or stories if you want to join me.

I haven’t gone anywhere: I’m here if you need me.

Always.

But it’s been a really hard time ❤️

02/17/2026

DOULADO gets you the 🔗

No sales pitch, no pre-recorded session: a chance to talk honestly and openly about what this work looks like, and how it might fit in to YOUR life ❤️

02/13/2026

Grief lands differently in homicide.

Centre the victims, and surround the survivors with loving compassion.

The child who committed the horrific crime in Tumbler Ridge had significant mental health issues.

I suspect the cis-gendered white men who commit 97.3% of mass murders do too. Same with the almost 3% of (mostly white) women who do this. It totally tracks that the sub 1% of trans people who commit these types of crimes are dealing with profound mental instability.

Blame doesn’t help grief. Compassion, love, and kindness for the victims and the people closest to them is the only thing that does.

May we always say their names with love:
Abel Mwansa
Ezekiel Schofield
Kylie Smith
Zoey Benoit
Ticaria Lampert
Shannda Aviugana-Durand
Emmett Jacobs
Jennifer Jacobs

02/11/2026

Have you ever wondered about how someone could "become" a death doula?

Join me, so we can explore this question together! My first session in February is tomorrow (Thursday Feb 12) and there are few others to choose from.

Plus, it's recorded! So if the live sessions don't work, you can still get your questions answered.

Do you feel called to this work?Then we need to get to know each other…Would you say you’re “doula-curious”?If so, I’d love you to join me for What Does a Doula DO? This free, one-hour webinar will answer all your questions about this meaningful (and often misunderstood) work.There’s fou...

02/11/2026

What can you DO when you hear news like this?

You can check on a neighbour.

You can send a loving text to someone you haven’t heard from in awhile.

Host a dinner. Smile at your seat mate on the bus.

Community is all that matters, now and in the end. It’s all we have. It’s all we can do.

❤️

02/09/2026

Comment DOULADO to register 🩷

If you’re an emerging end of life doula, or even just curious about the field, join me for a LIVE webinar and get your questions answered 🩷

Yes, I’ll send a recording out after!

No, you will NOT be sitting through a sales pitch!

Yes…I love this work and have been deathcaring for nearly a decade now.

Join me this Thursday at 6 pst for a tight hour. You’ll meet some cool folks, and talk about the ONE thing we all have in common.

Comment DOULADO for a 🔗to your DMs or you can check my bio or stories to register 🩷

Can’t wait to see you there!