01/16/2026
Consider this your official permission slip for the weekend:
Pleasure doesn’t need to be spontaneous to count.
Using tools doesn’t make you “extra.”
And asking for what you want is deeply attractive behaviour.
Midlife intimacy isn’t about performing. It’s about enjoying.
So whatever brings laughter, warmth, curiosity, or a little spark — that counts.
Happy Find Your Joy Friday
We are off to follow our own advice...