Strength in Heart Counselling

Strength in Heart Counselling We're here to help, no matter where you are, or what your budget is!

A team of 15 counsellors in Victoria & Cobble Hill, BC & online across Canada who support individuals (ages 15+), couples & families to transform their pain into strength.

Feeling overwhelmed or stuck? Get guidance from someone who understands both the science & the struggle. With a backgrou...
01/24/2026

Feeling overwhelmed or stuck? Get guidance from someone who understands both the science & the struggle. With a background in academia & a passion for mental well-being, Cleia offers practical, evidence-based support to help you move forward.
✨ Book your free first session today & start your journey toward clarity & confidence. Book online 24/7. First full session is free & then $35 per session.

Finding a therapist is about connection, comfort, and communication. Here are a few things that can help you choose the ...
01/23/2026

Finding a therapist is about connection, comfort, and communication. Here are a few things that can help you choose the right fit:

Pay attention to how you feel in the first session.
Do you feel heard, respected, and not rushed? The therapeutic relationship is one of the biggest predictors of progress.

Consider the therapist's specialty or approach.
Cognitive-behavioral? Trauma-informed? Culturally sensitive? Make sure their expertise matches your needs.

Be honest with yourself and with them.
Therapy works best when you can be real. If something isn't clicking, it's okay to say so and explore other options.

The right therapist for you will feel safe, supportive, and genuinely invested in your growth.

Need help finding the right counsellor? Book a free 20 minute Discovery Call with our Counsellor Match Coordinator or complete the match tool on our website here: https://www.strengthinheart.ca/match

We’re here to help, no matter what your budget is! No waitlist & no referral needed. A team of 17 counsellors available ...
01/23/2026

We’re here to help, no matter what your budget is! No waitlist & no referral needed. A team of 17 counsellors available in office in Victoria and Cobble Hill, Cowichan Valley. Online across Canada. Book a free meet and greet now! 24/7 online booking available.

We're honored to spotlight Scarlet Jaxen, RSW and Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician (NATC), a cornerstone...
01/21/2026

We're honored to spotlight Scarlet Jaxen, RSW and Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician (NATC), a cornerstone of our team at Strength in Heart Counselling. Scarlet specializes in helping survivors of narcissistic abuse heal from trauma and rebuild healthy relationships with themselves and others. Her trauma-informed, body-based approach honors each client's unique healing journey while providing evidence-based treatment strategies. Whether you're just beginning to recognize narcissistic patterns or deep in your recovery, Scarlet offers the expert, compassionate care you deserve. Ready to take the first step? Schedule your free 20-minute intake consultation today. Your healing matters.

Social media can be a space for connection, creativity, and even support. But when it starts consuming hours of your day...
01/21/2026

Social media can be a space for connection, creativity, and even support. But when it starts consuming hours of your day or influencing how you feel about yourself, it may be doing more harm than good. Recent research continues to show a strong link between excessive social media use and increased rates of anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and loneliness.

Here's why it happens:

Your brain is wired to compare.
Seeing highlight reels of other people's lives, success, bodies, relationships, triggers a sense of inadequacy. Your brain processes this comparison even when you know it's curated.

The scroll = overstimulation.
Constant exposure to short, fast-paced content floods your brain with dopamine hits. But over time, this can dull your natural reward system, making it harder to focus or feel satisfied offline.

Social pressure increases stress.
Filters, trends, and performance culture can make people feel like they have to always be "on." This performance pressure can amplify self-doubt and lead to emotional burnout - especially in teens and young adults.

You don't have to quit social media, but being aware of its effects can help you create better boundaries, engage with intention, and take breaks when needed.

Meet Claire Skillen, RCC, therapist + bestselling author with 20+ years supporting people through high-pressure environm...
01/21/2026

Meet Claire Skillen, RCC, therapist + bestselling author with 20+ years supporting people through high-pressure environments (healthcare, Coast Guard, BC Wildfire, tech/consulting). Claire offers EMDR Therapy (Standard & GAP Protocols) plus DBT + IFS-informed counselling for trauma, burnout, emotional abuse, grief, anxiety, and life transitions.

Now accepting new individual clients in Victoria, BC + online across BC.

Book a free consult today!

https://www.strengthinheart.ca/blog/2026/1/20/a-therapist-whos-also-an-author-what-claires-writing-on-leadership-reveals-about-resilience-amp-recovery

They show up. They perform. They support everyone around them.They're the friend everyone goes to. The one who never mis...
01/19/2026

They show up. They perform. They support everyone around them.
They're the friend everyone goes to. The one who never misses a deadline.
They're the ones we assume are "doing great."

And often... they're the ones most in need of someone who sees them too.

Therapy creates a space for those who carry it all to finally exhale.
To ask deeper questions.
To figure out who they are when they're not holding it together for everyone else.

Even high-functioning people need a place to heal. We're here for that. Book your consultation today.

Big meeting? Medical test? Social event? Anxiety can show up before things that matter to us. These strategies can help ...
01/16/2026

Big meeting? Medical test? Social event? Anxiety can show up before things that matter to us. These strategies can help you stay grounded when your mind starts to spiral:

Ground yourself with 4-7-8 breathing.
Inhale for 4, hold for 7, exhale for 8. This slows your nervous system and helps you stay present.

Use "Name 5 Things" to return to the moment.
Say 5 things you can see, 4 you can touch, 3 you can hear, 2 you can smell, 1 you can taste. This technique re-centers your focus.

Remind yourself: "I don't need to feel ready. I just need to show up."
You don't need to eliminate the anxiety, just soften its grip.

Your brain is trying to protect you and these tools help remind it that you're safe.

Burnout is the emotional version of running on empty. It often builds slowly, especially in caregivers, high-achievers, ...
01/14/2026

Burnout is the emotional version of running on empty. It often builds slowly, especially in caregivers, high-achievers, and those who are constantly "holding it together."

You might be in burnout if you feel:

- Numb or detached from things you used to care about
- Emotionally reactive or unusually irritable
- Drained even after sleep or rest
- Like even small tasks feel overwhelming

Burnout is a nervous system in overdrive for too long. And while it's common, it's not meant to be your baseline.

Recovery is possible, but it starts with recognition.

You might be high-functioning on the outside, but feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or exhausted on the inside. That's a sig...
01/12/2026

You might be high-functioning on the outside, but feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or exhausted on the inside. That's a sign you've been coping without enough support for too long.

You don't have to sort it all out alone. With professional therapy, you'll have someone trained to:

Hold space without judgment
Identify root patterns and emotional blocks
Equip you with personalized tools for real-life challenges

Expert care means more than listening. It's structured support designed to move you forward. Book your consultation and get started today.

That sinking Sunday feeling, the mix of anxiety, pressure, and restlessness, is more common than you think. It's your mi...
01/09/2026

That sinking Sunday feeling, the mix of anxiety, pressure, and restlessness, is more common than you think. It's your mind bracing for the week ahead.

Here are a few gentle ways to make that transition easier:

End your weekend intentionally. Light a candle, journal, stretch, do something that marks the close of your day instead of scrolling until bed.
Plan one kind thing for Monday. A favourite breakfast, a morning walk, a slower start - something that makes the day feel a little softer.
Name your worries. Sometimes just writing them down gets them out of your head and makes them more manageable.

If the Sunday blues hit hard every week, it might be your mind's way of asking for balance.

What helps you unwind before a new week?

Have you been taking care of everything, except you? When life gets busy, it's easy to drift away from your own needs. Y...
01/08/2026

Have you been taking care of everything, except you? When life gets busy, it's easy to drift away from your own needs. You might not notice it until you feel numb, restless, or unsure of what you even want anymore.

Here are a few ways to gently reconnect with yourself:

Check in daily. Ask yourself, "What do I need today - physically, emotionally, or mentally?"
Spend time alone on purpose. Even 10 quiet minutes with no distractions helps you hear your own thoughts again.
Reconnect through small joys. Music, creativity, nature, anything that reminds you of who you are outside of responsibilities.

You deserve time with yourself and not just the version that gets things done.

Share this with someone who's been running on autopilot, or book a session if you're ready to feel more grounded again.

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