04/08/2022
Parenting is an intense gig. It asks a lot of you, and youāre over here serving your 78 395th snack, mummifying while you wait to be āmamaāfied. On the edge of your seat for an āI love you.ā Here are three ways to get there:
1. Spam your kid
Kids typically say their first word by 12 months of age, meaning theyāve listened to a word for 1 whole year before using it! Knowing that kids need to hear a word many times before using it, spam them with the words that mean the most to them! Enlist your family members/babysitters in celebrating your returns by standing at the window with a chorus of āMama!ās
2. Routines
Using words really predictably builds language understanding by pairing a word with an action, item, feeling, or activity. It also sets you up for fill-in-the-blank opportunities where you start the phrase and wait for your child to finish it. Similar to peek-a-boo, play an āI love youā game on either side of a bedroom door, opening and closing it.
3. Take heart in what they ARE communicating. There are building blocks that come before talking and reaching, calling for you (āahhā), protesting someone else, looking at the same thing you are (joint attention), looking from a thing to you to share an experience with you (joint referencing), playing together, smiling, and laughingā¦those are ALL āI love youā for beginners.ā¤ļø
They see you. ā¤ļø They love you. ā¤ļø
And they need another snack. š